That is a gift. Receive it as such.
A note on GIVING feedback:
Midrash Genesis Rabbah 54:1
Rabbi Yosi ben Chanina said, “A love without reproof is no love.” Resh Lakish
said, “Reproof leads to peace; a peace where there has been no reproof is no
It's best done not publicly, in the context of an ongoing relationship, with some tenderness sharing something that's hard to hear.
*Or also hurt, if the person naming the harm is also impacted
And sometimes it'll be hard to hear no matter the package.
Again, it's a gift: A chance to do better.