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Some time ago I put some notes together on in my personal notebook on achieving adulthood, based upon some of my experience with the young adults I’ve dealt with at work. Here are my thoughts. #AdultingAndStuff #adulthood #adulescence
1. Learn to live and partner with another adult, to pursue common goals and activities. This should be a roommate or close relative rather than a romantic interest or another person of the opposite sex.
2. Learn to understand the opposite sex outside romantic situations. Observe the common and uncommon habits and characteristics of your friends and relatives of the opposite sex in your daily life, so that you can get some understanding before a romantic haze hits.
SNIPPETS FROM MY HEART: abuse has an environment.
Abuse thrives on power and ignorance.
A house help feels incapacitated because he/she thinks of their job and get into the victim mindset and the boss gets into the power role of do it or you lose your job.
#AdultingAndStuff
Abuse thrives on power and ignorance.
A house help feels incapacitated because he/she thinks of their job and get into the victim mindset and the boss gets into the power role of do it or you lose your job.
#AdultingAndStuff
A child is left at the mercy of an older person and the adult leverages the child's ignorance to finger them or rape them even.
See, this is a power game every time.
Seniority & Superiority is power (factor in African upbringing)
Money is power
Knowledge is power
See, this is a power game every time.
Seniority & Superiority is power (factor in African upbringing)
Money is power
Knowledge is power
Being in public and having public approval is a kind of power too.
When we start teaching our children about sex, we emPOWER them.
When we decide to preserve ourselves and get into the superior role in our lives, we get emPOWERED.
When we start teaching our children about sex, we emPOWER them.
When we decide to preserve ourselves and get into the superior role in our lives, we get emPOWERED.
#taxes #TaxSeason the That moment when your #Adulting reality hits in after your parents say we can’t claim you. You think of the number headache you have to have to file your taxes for the first time... but then...
They provided all the numbers to fill the forms. So you think we’ll all I have to do is input them into a computer right?! I’m a millennial!
2hrs in on typing your numbers you realize...
