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Thanks to a great therapist, I’ve been working on processing some of the root causes of #dissociativeamnesia in my past, specifically childhood. This has pushed me to explore, in small doses, things that are tied to these periods and recently led to a deep dive on FB
Discovering this post, I expected my typical reaction to bringing up my past which is usually a very apathetic “meh” and quickly moving on. Instead, I actually had a bit of chuckle for a few reasons. I’m very happy at this response because it means I’m starting to process…
these moments in a healthier way. Aside from finding it humorous that I’m someone’s example of a good boy gone bad, I also found the subtle story told here very interesting. The third picture of me was chosen deliberately: photos I share of me on my birthdays are always of me…
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Today 5 years ago, I received my HIV diagnosis. From my sister!
Technically everyone in my immediate family knew before I did.
I was told my brother almost fainted when he was told.
I was calm in the midst of it all. Started my ARVs 2months after
and in less than a year, I became undetectable.
Over the course of five years, I've had a range of experiences. There were people who loved me no matter what and for that, I'm grateful. There were people I had to educate and I'm thankful that they learnt one or two things.
There were some that just didn't get the gist. Some would ghost immediately I told them. Some would come with crazy excuses. Some tried to shame/blackmail me..lol.
In all, I'm thankful for life. For growth. For friends. For support systems.
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I got to explain #GayPanic and #UselessLesbian to my pysch today 😂

These are terms I just learned (over the last few months myself) that described succinctly, what the heck is going on with my brain.

To unpack these terms, I'm going to start you with Sappho.
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“Sweet mother, I cannot weave –
slender Aphrodite has overcome me
with longing for a girl.” –Sappho

To everyone, we've almost all been in this feeling. (i cannot speak for Ace)
Someone we see or meet, and their presence just #dazzles us into #malfunction (however brief)

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- it's a pretty common #human #feeling. (again, cannot speak for Ace, and that's ok, y'all are lovely :) )

now here's where #GayPanic sets in... we feel the feels...omg. wow.
and our brains go into... IS THIS DANGER????

I'm sorry to say, our panic does start there.
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