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1. Lobola is to thanks her parents, for raising a her.
Ans: what about his parents? Did they not raise someone worth being thanked for? #lobola A thread
Ans: what about his parents? Did they not raise someone worth being thanked for? #lobola A thread
2. Lobola is to thank her parents, they raised someone who is going to come take care and cook for you.
Ans: we've already established that gender roles are a problem, please don't take us backwards #lobola
Ans: we've already established that gender roles are a problem, please don't take us backwards #lobola
3. Lobola is to thank her parents for raising someone who is going to carry your children.
Ans: IVF and surrogacy
Also, if she can't have kids or they don't want kids, can he have his money back?
Ans: IVF and surrogacy
Also, if she can't have kids or they don't want kids, can he have his money back?
There are cultural observations and ritual processes that take place between involved families until the day of the celebrations. It begins with a young man informing his family that he has met a woman he would want to marry. there are other ways in which a man can get a woman.
He informs male elders within the family. They them consult with the family matriarch ;Kgadi. She plays an important role to appoint Mmaditsela. Mmaditsela is more like a family spokes person. Often are women, but men can also assume this role. It is a trusted none family member.
