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Living w Disability

šŸ”¹I donā€™t know what youā€™re going through
šŸ”¹Is every day a struggle?
šŸ”¹Greg suffers #DownSyndrome, Alz Dz, Depression, Catatonia
šŸ”¹ Yet today he said, ā€œSundayā€™s donut day, but letā€™s have ā€˜chockleā€™ anyway & Iā€™ll be ok.ā€

Be inspiredā€¼ļø

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#Recovery Image
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1/šŸ§µGratitude is Painā€™s big brother
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ā–ŖļøProf Greg teaches me to accept life on lifeā€™s terms
ā–ŖļøICU pts teach me how to traverse pain
ā–ŖļøGratitude is their close companion
ā–ŖļøGratitude is not just a tenet of etiquette ā€“ itā€™s an essential quality of well-being

#UpSyndrome
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2/ I canā€™t pay gratitude w a checkbook, only from the ā¤ļø

šŸ“My Gratitude Ledger is in deficit because I donā€™t nurture #Wisdom
Ā šŸ“I underutilize this superpower of recovery
Ā šŸ“Gratitude is Gregā€™s antidote to victimhood
šŸ“It helps him rise above any situation

#TheLuckyFew Image
3/ Gratitude canā€™t be reduced to verbal or written acknowledgment of a gift šŸŽ
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Greg has a deep sense of awareness of his interdependency on others, you & me, his sisters & brothers.

Heā€™s gracious in heartfelt appreciation despite living w great disabilities.

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1/šŸ§µ Beauty in the Nowā€¦

While normally Greg doesnā€™t #worry, in this case, he succumbed to fear of change.

He was screaming and Crying in Fear - see tweet below.

How did he get through it?
What did he teach me?

#NothingDownAboutIt #DownRightPerfect #UpSyndrome #Tribe321
2/ Greg held his head in his hands and trembled with worry.

We were disrupting his usual Saturday of watching ā€œI Love Lucy.ā€

Think Rain Man type of dependence on routine &
thatā€™s Greg.

So when Kim and I took him to the mountains, it totally messed him up.

What happened?

#T21
3/ At first Greg got angry with us for taking him on this trip.

I mean, REALLY angry.

And we know that #ANGER is just one letter away from #DANGER.

He was heading in a dangerous path of rejecting something that could be healing & good in his life.

#TheLuckyFew #FindYourTribe
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1/šŸ§µ Are you happy?

My brother w #DownSyndrome is teaching me tons of life lessons.

In medicine & in life, I make big decisions based on guesstimates of otherā€™s Quality of Life #QOL.

I often GET IT WRONG!
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What do adults w #disability teach me about TRUTH?

Can I learn? Image
2/šŸŽ„ How do we ā€œcalculateā€ someoneā€™s #QOL?
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#Confession: I get it all wrong when I impose MY judgment onto THEIR life.
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Greg, my 57 y/o brother-in-law with Down Syndrome, has a better QOL than I do.

Why?

Digest thisā€¦read onā€¦
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#DownSyndromeLove
3/ My working definition of QOL is ā€œthe ability to give & receive love.ā€

REREAD THATšŸ‘†

Greg understands the Law of the Gift: Treasures GROW when we give them away.

Itā€™s the opposite of hoarding.

Yet, giving ourselves to others can be SCARY. Greg ponders deeply these emotions. Image
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