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Belief System Session: Keep your life private
The "craze to show off" virus should never infect you. Keep your life private, not everything about you should be known. #UpgradeMastery
Diane, ever wondered why it is important to keep your life private?
The "craze to show off" virus should never infect you. Keep your life private, not everything about you should be known. #UpgradeMastery
Diane, ever wondered why it is important to keep your life private?
It is as important as having your own name. Sadly, we live in a world where we all want to be seen, heard and known, nevertheless we must learn to keep our lives private. It is called private life for a reason because it isn't expected to be public.
Once you make your life public, you lose your right to be upset about public opinion, trolls, and the likes when they come after you. People will only become aware of what you give them access to.
Belief System Session: Celebrate your progress
Slow progress is still progress. Learn to celebrate your progress else you will become an ingrate for no reason. #UpgradeMastery
Diane, do you celebrate your progress? Or you are modest keeping it calm?
Slow progress is still progress. Learn to celebrate your progress else you will become an ingrate for no reason. #UpgradeMastery
Diane, do you celebrate your progress? Or you are modest keeping it calm?
Well, I like to tell you to learn to celebrate your progress. Everyday you are making progress no matter how little and you must be comfortable to celebrate your progress.
First, nobody knows how much effort, dedication, discipline, diligence and consistency you put into you hence they may not celebrate it, that is why you must be the one to celebrate your progress.
Belief System Session: Care for people
People really don't care how much you know, until they know how much you care. It is wise to care for people. #UpgradeMastery
Diane, often we drink from wells we didn’t dig, warm ourselves by fires we didn’t start.
People really don't care how much you know, until they know how much you care. It is wise to care for people. #UpgradeMastery
Diane, often we drink from wells we didn’t dig, warm ourselves by fires we didn’t start.
Appreciate what others have done for us to be where we are. Selflessness or Selfishness are roads we can follow. One is paved by kindness and care, the other by disdain and pride. Choose wisely. Sometimes people don't care about u, they only care about meeting their needs from u.
Having someone who truly cares for you without wanting anything in return, is a true blessing. It's during the worst times of your life that you'll get to see the true colors of the people who say they care about you. People will always respond to care.
Belief System Session: Tell yourself the truth about your relationship
Whatever you ignore doesn't fix itself. No relationship crashes without warning, many just don't see, tell, accept, and work with the truth. #UpgradeMastery
Diane, relationship is not for the weak
Whatever you ignore doesn't fix itself. No relationship crashes without warning, many just don't see, tell, accept, and work with the truth. #UpgradeMastery
Diane, relationship is not for the weak
Diane, relationship is not for the weak hence if you don't have the energy for its demands then don't even start. Unfortunately some people have started and are in it already but now they are beginning to see things are not working but they simply can't tell themselves the truth.
Truth is truth, ageless and timeless, it really does not give a care who gets hurt. Truth hurts but hurts heal with time that is why it is always important you tell yourself the truth about your relationship, stop putting bandage on what requires surgery.
Belief System Session: How intimacy dies in relationship
Everyone craves intimacy, yet some hardly realise that they kill the intimacy they so desire without even knowing. #UpgradeMastery
Everyone craves intimacy, yet some hardly realise that they kill the intimacy they so desire without even knowing. #UpgradeMastery
Diane, it is funny how the same thing people desire and crave, they also kill and watch it die while they stand aside doing nothing. You cannot imagine how ironic that is, that what you want the most is what you pay attention to the least.
I realise that people want fairytale lifestyle with love, romance and relationship, yet they forget that even fairytale story are thought through and actually written down. There is nothing that works like work, so there is the work required for intimacy to become the norm.
Belief System Session: Your relationship is not the problem
Every problem has a solution, if it doesn't have a solution then it is not a problem. Your relationship is not the problem. #UpgradeMastery
Diane, guess you are wondering when I say your relationship is not the problem
Every problem has a solution, if it doesn't have a solution then it is not a problem. Your relationship is not the problem. #UpgradeMastery
Diane, guess you are wondering when I say your relationship is not the problem
Yes, I said it and it the the truth and that is on period! But sincerely look at it, the relationship is not the problem and I will tell you why.
One of the things I share with clients about problem solving is that every problem has a solution, if it doesn't have a solution then it is not a problem.
Belief System Session: The pain of starting again
One of life's hardest decision to ever make and pain to face is starting again. Once you do it, it can change your life forever. #UpgradeMastery
One of life's hardest decision to ever make and pain to face is starting again. Once you do it, it can change your life forever. #UpgradeMastery
Sam, sometimes the difference in people is how they are able to overcome the pain of starting again. Life doesn't cut you slacks as you will expect and when things go south, you have no other option but to pick up the pieces starting again.
It may be a relationship, a partnership, an investment, a job, whatever it is once things go awry don't cry too much, wipe your tears and start again.
Belief System Session: Your true life line is service
One of the greatest act of greatness is service. You will always be great to the degree you serve. #UpgradeMastery
One of the greatest act of greatness is service. You will always be great to the degree you serve. #UpgradeMastery
Sam, your true life line is service. Service is the one thing that never goes unrewarded in this life and in the one to come. Those who are truly happy, wealthy and wise are always rendering service.
They are giving away their time, energy, resources, money, all and more through service. They plant trees in whose shades they may never sit under because they realise a life well lived is lived in the service of others.
Belief System Session: Are you really tired?
Sometimes until you really get tired nothing changes. Most people don't get really tired, they just adjust to find comfort with discomfort. #UpgradeMastery
Sometimes until you really get tired nothing changes. Most people don't get really tired, they just adjust to find comfort with discomfort. #UpgradeMastery
Sam, are you really tired? This seem like a no brainer question but it is really important. You think you are tired but it will amaze you how you can find a way to become comfortable with your own discomfort.
When you begin to make adjustments to what you don't want, then I like to ask are you really tired? When you get tired of being sick and tired, some things begin to change for good.
Belief System Session: Call for help
No one will know what you are going through until you call for help. Call for help is not weakness but strengthen. #UpgradeMastery
No one will know what you are going through until you call for help. Call for help is not weakness but strengthen. #UpgradeMastery
Sam, do you feel shy or ashame to call for help? Are you still thinking what will people say, how will they see me, will they even believe me when I call, etc these and more will always hinder you to call for help.
Believe it or not, everyone at one point in their lives will have to call for help. So think it not strange when you have to be that one who calls for help, it is only a phase in life and it will also pass.
Belief System Session: Receive Forgiveness
Forgiveness is never earned, it is received. Receive forgiveness and move on with your life. #UpgradeMastery
Forgiveness is never earned, it is received. Receive forgiveness and move on with your life. #UpgradeMastery
Sam, sometimes we punish ourselves unnecessarily with the hope it will help us earn forgiveness. Sadly, we were raised to earn things, so we also have this mentality that we must earn forgiveness.
It will amaze you to realise that forgiveness is never earned but it is only received. To earn something means you worked hard to deserve it, but interestingly and respectfully so, forgiveness is not one of such things you earn.
Belief System Session: How to Sell without Selling
We are all salespeople. One skill everyone must learn is the ability to sell. And it becomes awemazing when you know how to sell without selling. #UpgradeMastery
We are all salespeople. One skill everyone must learn is the ability to sell. And it becomes awemazing when you know how to sell without selling. #UpgradeMastery
Sam, you are either selling or you are being sold. Now, you may argue with this but this is the reality: everyone is selling something. It can be a product or a service but we are all selling. In fact, those who sell more become wealthy and those who can't sell remain broke.
"The rich and the poor, the Lord made them both," not "the Lord made them so". Therefore, sometimes your being rich or poor can come down to your ability to sell.
