Thread by @knowyourIX

#TheBachelorette has been hard to watch and extremely triggering this season. Abusive relationships can be hard to identify if you're in one, and difficult to intervene in if you're loved one is a victim. Here is a thread of resources for survivors of IPV and their loved ones.

It can be hard to realize if you're an abusive relationship. Here's one reason why–abusers try to plant seeds of doubt in us to extend their control. They want to deny the abuse in any way possible. Here are some signs you might be in an abusive relationship.

If you're experiencing relationship violence, know you aren't alone. We have compiled some resources and common questions we hear from survivors of abusive relationships, with responses from those of us who have been there. knowyourix.org/survivor-resou…

Supporting a friend through relationship violence is hard. It’s scary to watch someone you love be mistreated, and the best ways to support them may be counterintuitive. Here are some common questions, with responses from both survivors and their friends. knowyourix.org/for-friends-an…

Here are some helpful phrases if a survivor of relationship abuse discloses to you. Remember, it's important to support your loved one and not push your emotions onto them.

If you or a loved one is experiencing relationship violence, remember to be gentle with yourself. Relationship violence is scary and difficult to navigate. Don't hesitate to reach out to @RAINN or @ndvh for help.