SEX Does Not Make You Marriageable, If HE Is GOD'S WILL He Will Wait!
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Stop believing those people who tell you sex makes you marriageable, sex will shows you love him, sex will make your relationship last, if he wants to marry you what is bad if you have sex with him, after all he is your husband to be. Don't believe them!!
I read of a conversation between a Sister and her boyfriend, she already made the decision of waiting until marriage but yet the brother insisted using the excuse he is a man and he needs sex to be active. activity ni🙄
long story short she left the relationship because it clearly showed he is not God's will.
A lot of Christian ladies are going through the same situation, they are almost giving in to show they are marriageable, they want to justify their love for the brother asking them to have sex with him, some brothers want to show the sister how active they are.
What are you trying to prove? See, FAM if he/she is God's will for you they will wait.
I know you are under pressure to get married and you think having sex with him will make him yours, you think giving in will make him love you more, you think you will lose him if you don't have sex with him, you want to satisfy his wants by giving yourself to him.
I know everyone is doing it and sex before marriage is now a norm to so many youths even Christians but it is not enough to give in, it is not enough to disobey God's word,
if he/she is truly the will of God for you, they will wait, they will help you wait, they will stand by you not leaving you because you refused to say yes to sin.
Sex is beautiful but sex before marriage is a sin, don't paint it any color, being engaged is not a license so don't say it is normal for those who want to get married, don't call it intimacy, don't give it another name it is called FORNICATION!
We want to paint fornication yellow, we want to give it other names, we want to make it look normal, we want to make it look good but please stop it, stop giving it names like intimacy! Haba😶
If it is that kind of intimacy then you should only be intimate with the Holy spirit until marriage! Which one is I want us to be intimate and you are pulling clothes🙄🙄
I know how you feel when every guy you meet asks you for sex even the brothers in church you never expected it from, I know how bad it is when you lost 5 relationships because you decided to remain pure,
I know how you feel when no one is ready to go with you in the journey of purity.
Relax, if it is God's will he will wait, if it is God's will she will wait!
God wants you to remain pure, He wants you to remain holy so if he says God told him you are his wife, why can't he wait, why does he want sex now? Check it out na😶 something is missing o. If he is God's will, he will WAIT!
Sex does not make you marriageable, it does not give you an edge, sex does not make you the one, you may only be able to satisfy his desires and still not be his companion! Secure your dignity sis!
If someone is God's will for you they will want to please God by remaining pure, they will not stop you from preserving your dignity, they will work together with you to remain pure and holy.
Don't be deceived by God said, don't be deceived by I can't stay without sex as a man, some will go ahead to tell stories like if we don't have sex I cannot be faithful to you🙄 Lies!!!!!
Be sensitive enough to differentiate lust from love, be careful not to fall in the devils trap, he can be a pastor, she can be in the choir, you don't need to justify anything, you don't need to prove any point!
You will lose your dignity when you give in, you may not even end up with this person and you may have a basket full of regrets so stand up to your ground, damn the consequences, lose that friendship and remain pure. If he/she is God's will they will wait!
Work on yourself sis, you have more to offer than sex, sex cannot keep a man, it cannot build a home, it cannot raise godly children so start working, start working on your dreams, your character, your prayer life. Be able to offer more!
If you made this mistake already and you are full of regrets, you need to move on, forgive yourself, go back to God and He will make you whole again❤
Don't let your past stop you from receiving from God, stop shouting all men are the same, all women are the same but wait for God's will!
©The journey of A Christian Lady
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