Thread by @ECOnuoha

I saw this post on Instagram where OfficialBlessingCEO @blessingceo discussed WHAT MEN WANT. instagram.com/tv/CDoEkYIp_Cv…

She totally missed the point.

As a man, here is my 1 cent on WHAT MEN REALLY WANT.

It’s a what? It’s a #Thread

There are 4 things men want from women; and I am talking within the confines of marriage.

Feel free to extend it to relationships, but no. 4 is a sin for single people before God.🙄

The points I will discuss are general rules. There must be a few exceptions, I guess

1. Respect. Men want women that respect them, especially before other people. Men will easily take disrespect from their women in private. But publicly? Nah. It will not go well. Ego and self esteem issues are important to men. It hits at the core of their being

2. Food. It is true that times are changing with feminism and all, but the age long saying that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach has some truths in it. Give him good food. Make sure he has eaten. Some men are so carried away with hustle that they forget to eat.

Personally, I forget to eat on most week days. I remember food only like 6pm, and I have not had anything all day. Give your man food, good food. Use some tactics. Be ingenious. Pack him a food flask. Call him and remind him to eat the food. Food is important ooo

If for whatever reason you can’t cook, don’t like cooking or whatever, and he is ok with it, it does not mean you should use hunger and kill him. DM @Stansbaby. She can arrange excellent meals for you. Keep in the fridge and warm it when there is need. Give your man food!

3. Neatness. Men want their women to be neat. Both personal neatness and environmental neatness. It’s very important. You see personal neatness, it is very important. The body of a woman needs extra more care than that of men. A man can have his bath only once a day, and be cool

But the anatomy of women is such that they need more care. Baths should be at least twice a day. Shave pubic hairs neatly, wear clean decent cloths. Use good fragrances. Men want to breath fresh air when they are around you.

You see your hair? Jesus! You hair must smell good!

I don’t care the amount you spent on that hair, if I come close and it smells awful, I will disappear. A lot of ladies carry smelly hair around. I don’t know why your hair is smells so badly, but you can do something about it. Just be neat please, edakun, ejoor, biko, abeg. 😩🙏

4. Sex. Sex is important but for most men, it is importanter! Some women run around their men, concerned that he could be cheating, but you that God have given him, you don’t give him. You are always tired. You are never in the mood. You’d rather watch Telemundo

A lot of women have gotten it wrong with sex. Except on health grounds, never deny your man sex. Be “approachable”. Be assessible. Be open minded. Try out new things. Make mistakes, practice, learn, get better, have fun!

Do. Not. Tie. Wrapper! *offs mic*

Premarital sex na sin o

Leeme just add a 5th one.

5. Peace of mind. Men want peace of mind from women. The home should be a safe heaven. His safe heaven. After taking on the world, he should come home and rest, and have peace. Don’t be a battle in his war.

Make your home so peaceful that anytime he is away till a certain time, all he wants to do is go home. Don’t nag. Don’t repeat things over and over again. He heard you the first time.

This is a general rule; and admits of a few exceptions or additions.

The End