Thread by @ThejourneyofACL

Dear Romantic Brothers, Let's Settle This Now!!!
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Why do you keep asking me if I am cold after every rainfall? Why are you even asking if I covered well or if you can help, help ni🙄 For the records this is how well I cover during cold and rainy seasons🖕🏽

Why are you calling me late in the night? Why are you asking me to send the picture of what I am wearing at the moment Ah warris that😶

Why are you even calling me romantic names? plis call be sissi or my name we are not in love!

Now, let's get down to this!

Why are you calling Sister Debby every night to check up on her, waking her up with one romantic text message saying good morning beautiful angel of the Lord, buying her lunch when you are in a relationship with Sister Joy?

You are close to Sister Nkechi in ushering department, you even offer to drop her and pick her from work everyday, its good but why do you have to visit her when you know its almost 10 pm?

Meanwhile Sister Bola in choir receives so much attention from you, you call her romantic names like sweetheart, honey, my dear, please be calming down o!

Sister Debby thinks you are in love with her, Sister Nkechi is already praying to know if you are God's will as she engages in cooler ministry while my dear Sister Bola already told her parents about you but you are engage to Sister Joy. How do we settle this now!

Tomorrow, when you finally present your wedding card, Sister Nkechi will be crying you dump her and all the while you had clear intentions, you were just show brotherly love and care. Who will believe you now?

Everyone knew how you always visited her, escorted her home, bought her lunch and took her on dates. We know you are a caring brother but how do we know you are not in love with her after all you never said so!

This is what I have to say!!!

Stop being close to ladies without defining the purpose of your relationship with them, if it is brotherly love let them know. Stop saying I didn't know she will take it serious! Spiritual Sisters also have emotions!

When you were calling her at midnight, buying her lunch and taking her on dates nko, you did not think she also had feelings and emotions abi her heart is made of stone and iron!

Don't be close to Sister A today then tomorrow you switch to Sister B, you can show love to everyone but when you begin to give so much attention to one person without defining it might cause a lot of gbas gbos!

Sisters, stop concluding over every brother that seems nice to you, he might have no intention to marry or even date you so before you start cooler ministry discernment is very important!

Accept brotherly love but be careful to ask when it starts changing gear, when the calls becomes more, when you are receiving gifts every now and then and you are eating chicken at Chicken republic! Ask the brother how fa!

Please let's define every relationship we have with a brother/sister to avoid I thought he will marry me o🤣

Note: It is not advisable to visit a brother/sister alone but if it is important please be careful and Fleeee when you should, stop waiting to see what would happen, when he/she starts shifting posting please take your leave🏃🏻

I come in peace❤

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