Thread by @ThejourneyofACL

Konji Does Not Know Your Intentions! #Thread

In my 200l first semester, I left the hostel to live off campus because of the inconveniences in the hostel, if you know you know🚶🏾 I don't have strength to narrate hostel wahala but if you can relate, help me out🤣

Back to the gist, I started living off campus, it was more comfortable but you know both males and females live in the same building and some people that are married in school and single at home lived together. I think this is a disadvantage😏

One evening, I needed to charge the battery of my phone since we had no power for days. Caretaker was not even concern, it is frustrating for a student to stay without power for days,

but trust the rich students nah, they have generator and television so just make friends with one, be careful sha😶 I knew one of them sha, so I went to plug my phone in his room, then I met this finneee tall guy, he also came to plug his phone.

He was just the way I always wanted! Hei, but I kept cool sha, I am a fine girl too. Lol. Before I could say Jack Robinson he approached me introducing himself, we attended the same church. Don't say Aww, don't try it but thats what I said o

"Maybe we are meant to be" I already concluded, then we exchanged contacts, started attending church service together since he was my neighbor too, just few blocks away, I just couldn't understand how I felt anytime we met.

He started visiting often, I decided to be a good friend so I do, same but then his moves changed, always wanting to hug and peck me on my forehead but his intentions were pure as he was only being a friend and a brother but it was planting a seed.

I found out hewas in a relationship so I knew nothing would work between us yet he kept coming close, visiting often, attending church service together, it ignited a spark in me until one faithful day when I needed a shoulder to cry on.

I just didn't think of any other person to call, I really wanted to satisfy the urge because of the close unhealthy relationship we kept, but I already decided to keep my virginity so it was a struggle! I called to tell him how bad I felt.

I had an issue in my results and I felt so devasted, when he came around, I felt loose, crying and just then he held me almost planting his lips on mine, what is happening, is this not my brother in church? Konji does not know your intentions!

I knew how to took God's grace to resist the situation at hand, if it was not God, we could have fornicated, the lust in my heart was enough to say we did. But we all wanted a good relationship, no intentions of sex.

Konji doesn't know he is your brother/sister in Christ, this is why the bible asked us to FLEEE! Flee and forget your shoes, see we know how this things starts, the close relationships, ehn we are just friends, besties😏

Set boundaries, always visiting a brother or sister will fuel your sexual desires and increase your urge for sex. Please set boundaries, stop lying close to each other, stop the hugging tight, just a peck something! Stop it!

Define every relationship, define ittt, what I the closeness for? Why are you always together? What for? Please start asking! Start asking now, are you just a friend or what does he/she wants.

If you want to stand for PURITY, then you have to fight for it, work for it, pray for it, live for it and refuse to negotiate it! Be sensitive enough to know when your feelings have changed, your desires and urges and start casting it out!

We Stand For Purity🔥

Konji means sexual urge.

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