Thread by @ThejourneyofACL

Dear Mr Lover Boy,
I need you to be calming down in this path of love you claim to be on!
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Before you even start walking on this path I want you to read and meditate on 1 Corinthians 13 because this is the weapon for a successful love story.

You cannot even claim you love someone when you don't have a relationship with God. How then do you know what true love is? God is love and for a man to truly love, he/she must first know and love God.

If you say you love someone why restrict them from serving God? You met me as a church girl and now you are trying to change me into a club girl! Is this your love from God?🙄

I am doubting, instead of encouraging me in my service for God, you are complaining that I like church too much! Please leave my life because without God I can do nothing!

Why are you trying to change someone you claim you love into a bad girl? This is so confusing sef, you met a good girl with morals and decency and you are trying to change her morals and decency into careless living in the name of making her wise!

Don't you know wisdom comes from God? You complain about her outfits requesting to buy her better clothes to make her look sexy and hot, you are trying to change her into a slay queen! Is this truly love?

What happened to adding value to her and making her a better woman, what happened to encouraging her to find purpose and work on her dreams.

If you say you love me, you will not want to lead me into immorality instead you will stand in purity with me, you will walk in the ways of the Lord with me, helping me remain steadfast instead of pulling me down! If your love is making me compromise God's word is it truly love?

How can you prefer to talk me about irrelevant things through out the night instead of praying with me instead. If you cannot call me to pray with me at least let me pray! Let me pray instead of chatting with you! Let me attend fellowship instead of hanging out with you!

If you love me, you will know my relationship with God is more important than my relationship with you, you will stop dragging the place of God, you will not try to take the place of God but you will strive to make me a better Christian and a better woman!

If you love me as you say Mr Lover, you will not condemn my faith, you will not mock me with names like Sister Mary, you will not insult me for deciding to be decent, you will not call me local instead you will support me in this Christian journey. Yes you will if you love me!!!

If you love me, you will not ask me to bleach my melanin skin, you will not complain so much about my body size, you will not try to force me into accepting your image about me, this is who I am, if you love me, you will also love my body size and complexion.

I cannot be deceived by your proposal of marriage, I cannot be deceived by the gifts and love you shower on me! If I don't see Christ in you, in your actions, in your character I cannot be involved with you.

Requesting for sex is not normal, if that is how they do it where you are coming from, this is not what the bible taught me!

From my heart today, I am letting you know I cannot let go of my identity to be called your Mrs, I cannot negotiate with sin to show how much I love you, I cannot compromise to gain your attention, I cannot drop my morals to be called your girlfriend.

I hope you get this, I am not in a hurry to be with a man, I am ready to wait for the will of God because I know He has prepared the best for me, I am not desperate, I am not dependent, I will handle my bills bruh! If you cannot walk in God's word, please let me be!!!!!

Mr Lover Boy,
If you cannot support me in this journey, come and take transport out of my life, I can even pay for your flight to leave! Pack and Go!!!

Yours Church Girl,
Essie❤

Can you drop a line for Mr Lover Boy, tell him what you want in a relationship and remind him of your identity! Let's do this fam🔥

Brothers, you can tell us what you can offer, how do we know your love is genuine. Don't be left behind😃

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