As the world becomes increasingly grumpy, the courteous gentleman has the opportunity not only to make a difference in the lives of others, but also to distinguish himself.
Here are some thoughts (notes-to-self, really) on being that kind of man.
On greeting others with enthusiasm, like you're actually happy to see them--
On treating your conversations like they matter--
On kindness towards the overlooked--
On learning names, especially of the overlooked--
On avoiding defensiveness--
On accepting compliments--
On saying thank you the best way--
On never dismissing others--
On embracing small talk--
On not overstaying your welcome--
And, of course, your courtesy becomes all the more potent when you do it from a position of strength.
You are not nice, not domesticated, not a pushover hiding weakness behind manners--you are a potentially dangerous man who chooses kindness and warmth.
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