Thread by @GbengaWemimo

A couple came to the Abuja hangout yesterday, the lady spoke for the guy. She said he had applied for visa several times without any success, she said he is very intelligent and has a very great potential but his life has been stagnant
She said she met him at a library and they

had a very deep discussion
She said she was blown away by his depth and knowledge
The guy was quiet
He didn’t say a word, he was just looking at me
I also listened very silently as the lady stated that she wanted him to prosper and measure up in life
I turned to the guy, I smiled

I said “You’re sleeping with her, even though you know she is married with three children. One of the children is even yours and you are aware of this
You are also friends with her husband, not a close friend but he knows who you are and you are acquaintances
The guy sat there

the lady held her lips
I kept quiet
The lady said “I don’t love my husband, I was practically forced to marry him because of the pressure mounted on me by my family after I graduated from the university
My husband is not my soulmate, he is too lethargic and unwise in many ways

I am tired of the marriage and I am planning to leave. It is just that things have not worked out as I planned
My boyfriend knows everything, we have planned that once he travels, I will do the needful and the burden of guilt and deception on me can be lifted
By this time she was

in tears.
I told her not to cry
I understand
I feel her pain
I feel for her
It would have been such a burden indeed
Cheating on your unloved husband, bearing the child of another for him and trying to find a way of escape
I turned to the “boyfriend”
I said “You’re with her now

because she is making some money and helping you to survive here in Abuja
You don’t plan to marry her or elope with her as she is hoping
You are not even interested in your child that she was raising in the name of another man
You don’t really love her like that, she is just a

means to an end for you
The guy replied, “That is not true, I told her to abort that pregnancy
I am five years younger than she is and I don’t believe I have to have everything figured out yet
She is the one in a hurry, trying to build a plan of escape through me so that she can

leave her miserable marriage
I cannot tell if I love her or not, I am a freethinker and love is not really a big deal to me
She knows this but every time I try to tell her what I think about the whole thing, she will start crying and somehow make it seem like I am being an ingrat

I looked at the lady
I looked at the “boyfriend”
The lady was not shocked by the “boyfriend’s” outburst
She has heard it before
She turned to me
Sir, even if I cannot be with him or whatever the plan was, can you please pray for him
I really want him to be successful in life
He

deserves better than the deal he has gotten at the moment
I sat there, silently brooding for a few seconds
They looked at each other and decided it was time to leave
I saw the non-verbal communication
The guy stood up
The lady followed suit
They left
I didn’t say anything!
I was

silently happy that they decided to leave
This morning, at 6:45AM
We were having an online service
I saw a phone call
I didn’t pick
The phone rang several times
I left it
Then I got a message
It was the lady’s husband
He said they are at the hotel I was lodged in
They wanted to

see me
I went down to see them by 7:05AM
The lady’s face was all puffed up
She had been crying all night
She had told her husband the whole truth and still the tears will not stop flowing
Her husband was the one that suggested that they come and see me before I leave the hotel

They had their children and the house help in the car
The children had been prepared for school
I told them to go and drop the children in school and then come back so that we can talk
They came back after an hour
She was still crying, wailing as if somebody died!
Her husband

said “I have forgiven her and I told her I will not make an issue over the child but she still will not stop crying. I don’t know what to do sir”
I started laughing, I told him she was not crying out of remorse
Her heart had been broken!
The “boyfriend” had dumped her
When I said

that she sat down and began to wail even more
She said “He is an ingrate, after everything I did for him, he told me it was over when we left here
I tried to beg him, he threw the key to the car I bought him at him and blocked me
Brother Gbenga, I have invested so much in this

guy
I can’t believe he will be so selfish
Her husband wasn’t offended, not even a little
That made me suspect him a bit
So I said “Has she done this before? You don’t look surprised in anyway?”
He said “This is her third lover, I know she is restless. Her father is a reverend

When I told him everything she was doing the first time
He gave me two plots of land and said “If you keep this family together, I will make sure you lack nothing.
I considered my option and decided to honour that agreement
I have a house with my name on the title deed and I have

children from her
Her father sends me cash gift often for my inconvenience
So I don’t think it is a big deal sir”
She stopped crying at that point
She said “My father does what?”
The husband laughed and said “He is doing it for you. He said he doesn’t want any scandal”
She said

“Where is this house?
Her husband named the city
The wife said “No wonder you travel there often”
Her husband said “I go there to check on the tenants and the state of the property”
I laughed because I suddenly got it
I said “You have a wife there and children”
Her husband kept

quiet
The lady glared at him
He still didn’t say anything
I said “I have to go and prepare for my flight, is there anything else I can do for you?”
The lady said “Please help me beg my husband to forgive me, make him promise that he wouldn’t not do anything stupid”
I turned to

her and said “We’re you not listening to him? He wouldn’t!”
The husband said “I promise, I wouldn’t”
The lady kept quiet
Then she said “Can you pray for us?”
I said “Okay”
I prayed for them and they left
When I got to my room I started considering how the whole issue played out!

Wow!
The Holy Spirit is a revealer of the thoughts, motives, intents and secrets of the heart
Never in a million years would I have been able to see beyond the facade presented yesterday except by the Holy Spirit.

PS: This Holy Spirit is my father, my comforter and my helper.

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Hallelujah