Ok. Time to break my silence on this, regardless of the potential avalanche of twitteric fury.
Domestic Violence rates will not crash, despite Osinachi's well publicised death.
Why? Because the women in #DomesticViolence settings are the primary perpetuators.
No one should force a woman to escape #DomesticViolence. No one should cry more than the bereaved.
When a woman is ready to leave a monster, she is ready to leave. Until then, everyone is wasting their time.
There are many reasons why women stay, most of them are bullshit. 👇
You protect a #DomesticViolence perpetrator when you are silent & don't cry out for help.
Tell someone.
Tell everyone.
Tell his family.
Tell your family.
Tell his employer.
Tell his Pastor or Alfa.
Let him be thoroughly embarrassed & humiliated.
You protect a #DomesticViolence perpetrator when you are silent & don't run for ur life.
He will kill you one day.
You will lie in ur grave forever.
He will move on & marry again.
Ur children will suffer in his hands.
NOTHING is worth this outcome.
No man deserves ur obituary.
You protect a #DomesticViolence perpetrator when you are silent & don't report him to law enforcement & agencies fighting against Domestic Violence.
He is the father of your children.
You don't want him to be imprisoned?
Let him go to jail.
Let him lie on the bed he laid.
You protect a #DomesticViolence perpetrator when you are silent & let shame keep you in the dangerous entrapment.
You don't want to become a divorcee?
You don't want to lose ur married friends? You don't want the church to ostracise you?
Hmm. A living 'Miss' >>>> a dead 'Mrs'.
You protect a #DomesticViolence perpetrator when you are silent & listen to Pastors or Alfas that tell you to stay with him & endure.
God does not want you to die in marriage. If it is not working, it is not working. You will not go to hell because you left him.
Run, Sis. Run!
'If you are more scared of losing your marriage more than you are scared of losing your life, something is wrong with you".
#DomesticViolence
You protect a #DomesticViolence perpetrator when ure silent & plead with people to leave him alone.
"The heart of a king is in God's hands. God will change him".
He is a monster, not a King!
God won't fix this!
If u can't fight for urself, don't bind the hands of ur rescuers.
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