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Nov 7, 2018 5 tweets 2 min read Read on X
I am praying for the light today. When I say that I am praying for the light what I mean is that I am deciding to become the light. I also accept that there is darkness in the world. I understand that the darkness I see in the world is also the darkness I see in myself. #Diwali
There is no darkness in the world that does not also abide in some form in me. When I acknowledge the dark, I am also acknowledging that I could not know the blessing of light without first naming the darkness. #Diwali
Therefore while I pray for and love the light I will also love the darkness because whatever I choose to authentically love I allow it to be free. I choose to let my darkness be free so it can stand next to the light. #Diwali
When they are standing together they will tell the true story of my life and in that truth telling I will accept both the light and the dark and know that the dark is only a place where the light has not yet learned to live. #Diwali
As I decide to become light, I am also praying that I develop the courage to learn to live in the dark places.#Diwali

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My sorrow is old and familiar. My practice has made it possible to slowly began holding and metabolizing not just my sorrow, but the sorrow of my ancestors, my community, the earth, and even the sorrow of my descendants. This is imperative work for me.
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A thread if u need support right now:

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Please bless me that I may survive the violence and trauma of trying to wake up and may I endure the violence of helping others to wake up as well.
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