Thread by @Tutsy22

Earlier l red a VERY disappointing tweet.

Let me write this #LetterToTheBedWarmers

He's got his cake and is eating it, too. He has a legitimate married relationship that helps his public persona & he has an illegitimate one with u to make up 4 what he's missing in his marriage.

He can spend his days with you and his nights with his wife. When he is tired of u, he can move on with no strings attached, and don't think he won't. If he could do that to someone to whom he is legally bound, what will he do to u who only has his words?

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While you are the husband- snatcher. He wins, for while his morale is always high, yours will be low, for you will have no dignity or pride again. We don't care how many promises he made to you, don't expect him to leave her and come marry you

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So u can start preparing yourself for a heartbreak when he moves on to someone else who is just as naïve. No one can know about u. Not family, not respectable friends, u can’t go out with him in public bcos u just might get caught either by his family.

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Plain and simple, he doesn’t want anybody to know about you for the fear of making himself look bad. Prepare for a hide-and-seek affair. You really can't call what you are having a relationship, think of it more like a hide and seek game.

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And hiding can be exhausting, having to keep your relationship a secret can attack your self-esteem and cause you to miss out on one of the wonderful aspects of a relationship.

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It is pretty obvious that immediately you accept his offer, his respect for you is gone. because he is thinking "she's after my money" so the likeness reduces and you become his little puppet,

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Despite that he tells you he loves you, reassuring you how much you mean to him, his not ending his relationship with his wife and coming into your arms speaks for itself, you are a second best.

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A mediocre, and you are worth having fun with but not marrying. If such is the case why settle for less when you can go for your type.

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Ever notice how quickly the years go as u get older? And so matter how u try u will look younger, especially since u are dating an older man, fact. Bcos it's convenient & comfortable, a relationship with a married man can’t necessarily go for a life time.

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Omo! before you know it you have eaten up the precious time you might have had in a healthy relationship with a chance of flourishing with an old man.

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Obviously. If he can cheat on her, he would do it to u. He made a vow when he married her & he clearly couldn’t follow thru with it. What would make u think u’re any different? Infact ur case is even worse, u have no legal backing. I'm sure u do know this?

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When you date a married man, everyone involved loses. The affair will only cause pain for you, him, his wife, and if applicable, his children & the Love child you had for him. Everyone who knows him is going to suffer.

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Before you make the huge decision to ruin several lives, you need to consider all the ramifications.

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Marriage is not just a relationship. It’s a lifelong, legal, spiritually-binding commitment that you have zero right to intrude on, no matter who initiates the affair.

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Even if his wife doesn’t fit your idea of perfection, it’s still not okay. Odds are that man isn’t out looking for something better. He’s looking for someone easier!!! #Dazzol

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Ayam waiting for the children of anger to come and attack me!