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Feb 6, 2019 15 tweets 2 min read Read on X
1/ A series of unrelated, but related, thoughts on life.
2/ We say ‘create your own meaning in life’ because saying ‘do things that prevent you from dying of boredom and ennui’ is too shocking.
3/ The most rational thing to do in life is actively avoid being rational.

Rationality assumes there’s a fixed and correct way of living life.
4/ Whenever someone says they know what’s important in life, run away.
5/ Existence of evil clearly illustrates that there is no fixed scale against which you can measure your life.

An evil doer generally is a good doer in his/her own eyes.
6/ We invent scales like money, followers, papers published, etc. because we’re afraid of the void.
7/ A life’s worth is undefined because what’s evil for one is good for another.

This gives oppurtunities for people to invent situations that preferentially show them only the good sides.
8/ A company cannot be mission oriented. Markets decide what the company does, not the company.

Similarly, a life can’t be mission oriented. Survival instincts decide what a person does, not the person.
9/ Whatever you do, it’s ok.

As long as you’re alive, you’re doing fine. If you’re dead, you’re dead anyway.
10/ Also, this.

What do we want? EVERYTHING!
When do we want it? NOW!
Are we sure we want it? NO.
11/ Rationality assumes a fixed, well-defined problem to work through.

In the short term, you can be rational about life - in the sense of avoiding pain. But in the long term, your future self is likely to be a different person living in a world very different than today.
12/ How do you rationally make decisions when what you're grappling with isn't even well-defined, let alone uncertain.

Jeff Bezos in context of business says "focus on things that never changes". I also wrote about it earlier: invertedpassion.com/dont-go-where-…
13/ In context of life what does "focus on things that never changes" even mean when we're programmed to be restless creatures? We want to feel progress but we don't like uncertainity. Too much certainity bores us. Even the feeling of "flow" once recognized fades away.
14/ This self doubt emerges because there's nothing fixed and eternal about how to live. There's no unquestionable Pythagoras theorem of life

Everyone invents their own theories, doubts them, then invents again. This has been happening for centuries and will continue happening.
15/ It's fascinating to see the interplay between too-much certainity in life and too-much uncertanity

When the right amount of challenge comes, we start doubting whether we're wasting our life's potential by not doing bigger things as if we're a machine designed for a purpose.

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Feb 26
Why time seems to pass faster as we age.

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1/ I’ve been mega-obsessed with this feeling.

A year as a 36 year old seems so much shorter as compared to when I was a kid or even as a teen.

It seems cosmically unfair - have less years to live, and each year is flying by faster.
2/ But, why is that happening?

My tentative conclusion is that it’s an unfortunate outcome of how evolution shaped our brain to be an efficient storage device.
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Feb 19
A (massive) thread on dopamine

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1/ If you prefer the blog format, this thread is available on my website too:

invertedpassion.com/a-primer-on-do…
2/ I recently made notes on the book “Hooked” but wasn’t satisfied by the depth of explanation in it.

So, I went about doing my own research on how to make habit-forming products.

invertedpassion.com/notes-from-the…
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Dec 30, 2023
List of books I read in 2023.

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1/ My favorite one was perhaps this one. It traces parallels between religion and trans-humanism.

Highly, highly recommend it.

2/ Highly recommend "Four Thousand Weeks" also. It's an anti-productivity manifesto.

My notes ->

invertedpassion.com/the-anti-produ…
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Aug 21, 2023
Effective technique for not getting involved with thoughts and emotions. Image
Correction: it’s acceptance commitment therapy.

By the way, not fusing with thoughts and emotions is the core of mindfulness and is pretty powerful.
Thoughts and emotions that bubble up to your consciousness is mostly clickbait - they got selected precisely because they’re exaggeration’s fabricated to make you pay attention.
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May 20, 2023
The best guidelines for any forum/network I've seen is that from Hacker News.

And the wonderful thing is that these guidelines actually work - Hacker News is the most inspiring and thoughtful forum out there.

Other networks like Twitter can learn a thing or two from it. Image
Sidenote: the massive work of moderating this long list of guidelines is done by ONE person.

Though increasingly we can have LLMs (like ChatGPT) interpret such guidelines and try to provide feedback to people before they make low-effort, clickbaity, rage-inducing comments. Image
The guidelines are worth reading in full and internalizing if you want to be a more thoughtful communicator.

news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines…
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May 14, 2023
The danger of pleasing the algorithm to go viral is that gradually you end up selling yourself to big tech companies.
This is how it works.

• Algorithms optimize for time spent on platform, because more time spent = more time for showing ads

• Algorithms promote content that sucks in more people (i.e. content that can go viral)

• Certain types of content is inherently more viral (rage… twitter.com/i/web/status/1…
This loop has two sinister effects:

• For the non-creator, it appears that the world is falling apart as they see extreme, hot takes all around them as nuanced, well-balanced content is seldom promoted by the algorithm

• Creators with promise end up losing their soul in the… twitter.com/i/web/status/1…
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