Every time Ingraham appears in my feed I'm going to bring that gesture up.
I used to name it, and I may again.
But not naming it is interesting, b/c it then those who insist that that gesture is NOT what it very clearly is have to name it. Which they do.
So you know they know.
I mean, it's so abundantly obvious. The gesture is what it is.
Showing the clip is all the accusation that's needed.
Sort of hard to pretend its not, when to defend it you have to admit you've also recognized that instantly recognizable gesture.
So then you have to resort to saying that the gesture isn't what it manifestly is, for some reason unrelated to the raising of an arm.
"She can't have done it, because if anybody did that, it would be the end of their career."
Except she did it, and it wasn't.
"She can't have done it, because millions of people love her show and the things she says."
Yes. Except she did it.
And having millions of people love what you say does not preclude the obvious implication.
Is that obvious? It feels obvious.
"She can't have done it, because she adopted a Guatamalan daughter."
Yes. Except she did it.
And love by a bigot for a single individual out of a hated group is a standard feature of bigotry.
Nor does adoptive parenthood automatically prove love.
"She can't have done it, because here are some pictures of Democrats."
Yes. Except she did it.
And a picture does not capture a gesture, as video does. And even if they did (they didn't), so did she. Someone else making a gesture doesn't preclude another person making it.
"She can't have done it, because COME ON."
This one's my favorite.
She did it, is the thing.
Your annoyance about being asked to consider the implications of that fact is really beside the point.
I keep bringing this up because I think it matters for a great number of reasons.
This morning, the point I want to make is this: most authoritarian strategy today involves insisting that things that obviously did happen didn’t, and vice versa
They’re hacking truth.
Hack back.
Choose frames that force deliberate liars and purposely self-deluded people to demonstrate that they actually know the truth and are deliberately obscuring it.
It can take a bit of work. But it can be done.
“You just can’t say things anymore; you have to be so careful these days about what you say.”
“Oh? What things can’t you say, specifically?”
“People are afraid to admit they support trump.”
“Oh? Which people? What specifically are they afraid will happen?”
Specifics are our friend.
Importantly: make the gaslighter say the specifics.
Ignore all the obfuscations and the distractions. Make them admit what exactly it is the conversation is about.
I return to Ingraham’s gesture because it is so blatant, it throws the gaslighting into sharpest relief
But also because a top rated “news” anchor made that gesture at the GOP convention nominating the current president and there were no consequences
We have to deal with that
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To those who scold that we mustn’t assume evil intentions into the actions of people who consistently pursue absolute evil with steadfast dedication and unshakable resolve: yes, we should.
I guess the ultimate answer to "you don't know what their true motivations are" is "who gives a shit what their motivations are?"
I care *that* you want to burn down my house. I only care *why* you want to burn down my house to the extent it helps me stop you.
Father: *strangles my brother*
Me: help help my father is murdering my brother
Centrist Cousin: it’s that sort of us vs them thinking that’s tearing this family apart
Me: no look literally he’s murdering my brother right in front of us
Centrist Cousin: he’s never going to want to stop if you keep vilifying him with overheated black and white language; I’ve engaged many stranglers and learned a lot about the complexities
Brother: gkkk gkk gk
Me: Look he’s about to die, for real; I really think we just need to stop my dad from killing him right now
Centrist Cousin: that’s exactly the sort of judgemental escalating bad thinking on our side that we need to criticize, I refuse to let myself become just as bad as he is
To be clear, that's any Republicans at any level for any position at any time, and honestly we may want to expand that to include Democrats willing to work with Republicans.
Shut the whole party down, out, and over.
If you want to live in a modern enlightened society and you vote for Republicans, no you don't.
As a Wordle pro on the tour, I feel I should share the best starting word, which all the pros know.
(My own personal favorite starting word is COCCYX, but if I show amateurs how to guess 6-letter words I will be banned from the Wordle Pro Tour and forced to sit next to Bret Stephens in the NYT cafeteria.)
Wordle is a game of constantly shifting strategy; I recommend you get the latest version of my strategy compendium, v14.
Specifically with this order. The one that exists. This reality. The way our systems and laws are set up, the way they’re codified and the way they’re operationalized. What they claim to intend to do, and what they actually do.
“The way things are,” in other words.
Let’s think of conservatism as being, in its essence, an orientation that desires to keep the existing order just as it is, or to make slow and deliberate calculated minor adjustments, to the existing order.
In BREAKFAST AT TIFFANY’S, Mickey Rooney played I. Y. Yunioshi, dressed up in buck teeth and a cartoon squint, a grotesque caricature of a Japanese person.
So I suppose in that sense “you wouldn’t be able” to make BREAKFAST AT TIFFANY’S today.
Which seems somehow preferable.
Now: what interests me is what it means to say *you can’t* make BREAKFAST AT TIFFANY’S these days.
It doesn’t mean you CAN’T. Unlike teaching, say,The Bluest Eye to Texas schoolchildren, there exist no laws to prevent Will Ferrell from putting in the teeth and playing Yunioshi.
So actually you *can* make BREAKFAST AT TIFFANY’S today, I.Y. Yunioshi and all, and throw in Long Duc Dong if you want.
You can if you want wear blackface and dance around in white gloves, like Fred Astaire in SWING TIME, if you want to.