So, we're eating dinner at home tonight - beef stir fry, with vegetables. We admonish the twins to eat their veggies, per usual. Jack asks what the weird looking vegetables are and we tell him it's eggplant. He declares he will not under any circumstances be eating "eggplant."
His twin, Charles, sees this as an opportunity. He can now be The Good Twin. He says "I LOVE eggplant," waxes at length about how he is going to eat all of his. The two-year-old is eyeing the whole thing carefully, he's not ready to declare for a faction.
All throughout dinner, Charles will not stop talking about his love for eggplants. They're his favorite, he declares. We're not sure he's ever even had eggplant but we appreciate the sentiment.
To the two-year-old we uphold Charles as tonight's model for how he should approach vegetables and life in general. We notice, however, that as the meal has progressed Charles has conspicuously avoided eating any eggplant. Jack is being oddly circumspect about the whole thing.
Finally it's time. There's nothing left on Charles' plate. "I think it's time to eat your eggplant," mom says. Charles takes a deep breath. He stabs a piece with his fork. Eyes it. The last thing he says, before it all goes down, is "I love eggplant."
The eggplant goes into his mouth. He dry-heaves *immediately.* The force of the second heave ejects the slimy half-chewed eggplant bits back into his hand. Jack and William lose. their. shit.
Folks... Charles isn't done.
The texture of the eggplant has broken something deep inside our sweet, happy, eager-to-please boy.
He vomits the remainder of the meal on his hand, his lap, the chair, the table. Nobody makes a sound, we are all frozen in horror, trying to process what is happening. Charles isn't crying, or even noticeably upset. He's just kind of... matter-of-factly puking all over himself.
Bri and I spring into action to clean it up before anything worse happens. The 2-year-old is just sitting there saying "what happened?" over and over again. Jack puts his fork down with a look on his face that says "see? I was right to not eat the eggplant."
Anyway that's how we found out that Charles doesn't like eggplant.
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The 100 most-performed symphonies at Carnegie Hall since it opened in 1891. It's a decent approximation of what you might call the Western symphonic canon and there's so many fun things to see when you slice the data this way.
Haydn, Mozart and Beethoven account for one-third of the 100 works included.
On the other hand, Beethoven, Brahms and Tchaikovsky account for 43% of the 8,683 total performances of these works.
You see a big gap around 1850, a visual representation of what Schubert said on his deathbed: "Who can ever do anything, after Beethoven?"
Then an explosion of creativity in the 1870s and 1880s.
Pretty clear that regardless of what happens in November we are barreling toward a Dianne Feinstein situation, but in the White House. Going forward we ought to seriously consider age limits (not term limits) for federal electeds and judiciary members.
Like what kind of shape do we expect either of these guys' brains to be in four years from now?
Infuriating datapoint on why American medical care is so expensive: a single New Mexico oncology practice spends $350,000 a year fighting insurance company coverage denials. propublica.org/article/how-to…
When we were on the Washington Post's dogshit insurance plan my wife spent *hours* every week fighting denials. Every single time it was due to fuck-ups on the insurance company's part. Absolutely infuriating.
And this was only possible because she worked in Social Security disability for a decade and had specialized knowledge of medical billing codes and the infrastructure around them. How many millions of people just give up every year because they don't have the same privilege?
Some personal news: got my final scans done yesterday and I officially beat stage 4 cancer!
It's been exactly 8 months since I went to the local ER for obstructive jaundice, and doctors started throwing the c-word around. But it feels like an eternity
Chemo's done and I've finally got all the hardware out of my liver so I'm starting to feel like myself again.
Rogers is definitely a lunatic but I have to wonder about the journalistic practice of showing up at the houses of people who clearly don't want to be interviewed. If you've called them and emailed them and they haven't responded, maybe that's all you need?
The impulse comes from a good place -- wanting to hold power to account and wanting to give all sides a chance to respond. But in this day and age there are so many other available channels of communication, and "stranger shows up at your house" is an extremely fraught situation
To be clear, the restraining order is garbage and the story in question was about whether Rogers actually lives where she says she does. So maybe this wasn't the best example to make my point lol