I deliberately visualize my life journeys before leaving the port.
2010: the goal was to attend Oxford Uni.
So I spent hours walking through its streets, wearing those fabled Oxford sub fusc, and living in those 800 year old buildings (IN MY MIND) before even taking the GMAT.
A few years ago, my goal was just to get a job after graduating from university.
In a country with >40% youth unemployment, that was a big goal.
Once again, visualization plus preparation did the trick.
You however can't just see it and go to bed. you also have to work for it.
See it before you start the journey.
Then work your way towards your desired destination.
Start this week.
Every week, I focus on something small but impactful and share it here in hope that it will help or inspire someone.
As I reflect on my journey through my 40s, I have compiled ten invaluable lessons that I believe hold value for individuals in their 20s, 30s, 40s, or even 50s.
1/10 Time Flies: Enjoy the Present Moment: One of the most important things I've realized in my forties is how quickly time passes. It's crucial to embrace each moment and make the most of it. Cherish the present because it's the only time that truly belongs to us.
2/10 Failure Leads to Growth: Mistakes and setbacks aren't the end of the road but stepping stones toward personal growth and improvement. Embrace failure as a valuable teacher, as it provides lessons that help you move forward on your journey.
To navigate it successfully, we must understand the imperatives of each decade and fight to win one decade at a time.
Let's explore the adventures of the 20s, 30s, 40s, and 50s together.
- A THREAD
Your 20s: Explore and ponder.
- Try new things and embrace failure.
- Discover your passions and interests.
- Gain diverse experiences.
- Spread your wings and soar!
- Embrace the adventure.
This is your golden era of exploration. Try 1000 jobs or music or art or coding or...
Your 30s: Focus and Specialize
- Identify what brings you the most value.
- Hone your skills in that area
- Become exceptional at what you do
- Become a specialist at something
Focus on honing your craft, discovering what brings you the most value until it's a unique superpower.