My note is near-identical to the one she wrote, after she gave it much thought and research.
Here's the text of mine...
April 9, 2020
Dear Ryan and Alexander:
You're reading this because I am concerned, given the COVID-19 pandemic, that a time may come when I may not be able to make my own medical decisions.
So please let my wishes as stated below guide you.
•If the same services can be provided at home, with guidance through telemedicine, I would prefer it.
•Do not agree to any tests whose results would be meaningless, given my desire to avoid treatments that might be burdensome, agitating, painful, or prolonging of my life or death.
If my condition deteriorates to the point where doctors are recommending I be moved to an ICU for ventilation:
•Please ask my medical team to provide Comfort Care Only.
•Ask my doctor to sign a do-not ventilate order and a do-not-resuscitate order, if this has not already been done.
•If not, please ask I be moved to a "comfort suite" or hospice unit.
• I wish to remove all barriers to a natural, peaceful, and timely death.
--Stewart
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Signature, Stewart Burrows Brand
Date________________
Location Signed___________________________
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