Please, allow me to offer some tips, hard won after MONTHS of my own deeply frustrating failures.
Combine equal parts flour and water. That's it.
I'd suggest 50g flour and 50g water.
(Remember 1ml of water = 1g of water. God I love the metric system.)
Also: measure by weight, not volume. Trust me.
Ask if you'd like more details.
Put it in a jar or bowl or tupperware or whatever. Ideally it's got clear sides. Then just let it sit UNCOVERED for anywhere from 2-14 days.
You're waiting for yeast to grow.
When you see bubbles inside your dough (hence the clear container) and along the top, that's a solid indication that Good Things Are Happening.
One of the most important is temperature.
Warmer is better, and 80F is a great. At 70F, things can really slow down. It's not bad, it's just not ideal.
Just dump the fruit after your first few feedings and you're set.
And don't worry, your bread will *not* taste like dried cherries. I promise.
Now you need to feed the yeast beast.
Every day, dump half of it. (Yes.) Then add 50g water and 50g flour. Mix. Cover with a lid so it doesn't dry out. Wait. Repeat the next day.
Note: YOU CAN'T BAKE WITH THIS YET.
You're going to need to keep feeding your yeast beast every day for anywhere from 3-14 days, and if you feed it twice a day, you can really speed up this process.
Your yeast beast should grow noticeably within 2-4 hours after feeding. (Again, temperature is important. If your yeast is colder, it'll be less active and will take longer to rise.)
The point is, if you can't tell it's risen, it's not ready.
The next key point is figuring out when to actually use your starter to make bread.
Basically: at the peak of its rise, likely ~4 hours after feeding.
And by "golden," I mean that you can now use your starter in a recipe that calls for "ripe starter."
Ta-da!
Is your starter thin and soupy? You can't bake with that yet; it hasn't been fed recently enough.
Does your starter smell funny? Also fine. The smell should change based on feeding, but not by a ton.
Never fear! You can still recover it. Just dump half and feed as normal. In a few days (especially if you're feeding twice a day) it'll be rising and falling as it should.
Alright. That's it for my starter thread. If you've got questions, I can try to answer! And if you've got tips to add, go for it!