You must manage your reputation!
She was shocked to see me in such a mood as her experience and understanding of me was a stern looking fellow who hardly laughs.
How come someone is telling me the opposite?
I tried to verify these assertions from other junior people close to me & I realized that the thoughts were the same
I have always shared with people that you must always get feedbacks from your circle of friends.
Your friends must be able to tell you what those who are outside your circle think about you and those feedbacks must not be ignored.
We will continue from here tomorrow defining the above.