This Twitter + Mastodon “where do we go” moment is a delicious case study on *trade offs*.
If there was ever a time where humans were good at understanding trade-offs and making decisions as a group about them… whew, we have definitely lost it.
Trade-offs, or individuals sacrificing something to gain a different thing (hopefully, something more important/valuable), is what tests the strength and health of a community.
But this beautiful world where people have healthy online spaces, communication, and relationships… this virtual promise land we want… is really fucking hard to achieve.
This piece about emphasizing what people have “lost” is particularly important.
Folks of color know that a little bit of that particular fear goes a long way. White people are scared of losing power, losing the ability to do whatever they want without consequence…
“It turns out that differences themselves do not lead to violence.[…] For a society to fracture along identity lines, you need influential people willing to make discriminatory appeals and pursue discriminatory policies in the name of a particular group.“ time.com/6141468/trump-…
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“If citizens come to believe there is even a small chance that the opposition could become violent, they will turn to a leader who offers them protection, no matter how unscrupulous.”
What I find particularly interesting is one thing suggested by these statements, but not said explicitly: that the rest of us are uninterested or not interested enough in the success of the businesses we are part of....