Thread by @ManishManke

@docbhooshan Excellent talk .Giving a summary based on the notes taken
•Session is looking after family as a good parent
•We are constantly bombarded with information which shows idealistic family, happy children, happy parents. This is not reality 1/n

@docbhooshan •This results in peer pressure and makes us emotionally charged
•Parenting is about how your children see you in daily life
•The actions we do are dictated by our emotions 2/n

@docbhooshan •The two dominant emotions which push us a parent
oFear, we are afraid
oEmotion of greed
•The focus should not be on outcome but on process of helping our children do the right things over and over again 3/n

@docbhooshan •Don’t try to hit every ball. It’s a long inning, just try to keep your wicket
oEveryone grows according to their potential and if you want your child to achieve potential the first thing is discipline. Home is the place to become self disciplined. 4/n

@docbhooshan oIn order to achieve this have a fixed schedule
oGiving gadgets to children is a bad idea.Right from young age restrict the entertainment time. Ability to switch off that screen is greatest ability
oEnsure smart study time ( study for a stipulated time)
5/n

@docbhooshan oChildren should self learn
oDedicated time for exercise sports/art. This will help in developing them in overall way
6/n

@docbhooshan •Children who feel good about themselves do well. This comes from self esteem. For this give them credible feedback and it should be genuine. Praise should not be followed by new demand. Also give critical negative feedback 7/n

@docbhooshan •Communication with children should be clear. If demand from a child is unreasonable just say no without getting into explanation. 8/8