@docbhooshan Excellent talk .Giving a summary based on the notes taken
•Session is looking after family as a good parent
•We are constantly bombarded with information which shows idealistic family, happy children, happy parents. This is not reality 1/n
@docbhooshan •This results in peer pressure and makes us emotionally charged
•Parenting is about how your children see you in daily life
•The actions we do are dictated by our emotions 2/n
@docbhooshan •The two dominant emotions which push us a parent
oFear, we are afraid
oEmotion of greed
•The focus should not be on outcome but on process of helping our children do the right things over and over again 3/n
बिगरी बात बने नहीं, लाख करो किन कोय.
रहिमन फाटे दूध को, मथे न माखन होय.
If milk gets spoiled, you can’t make butter out of it similarly in life if relationship gets damaged, it’s difficult to mend it
रहिमन देखि बड़ेन को, लघु न दीजिए डारि.
जहां काम आवे सुई, कहा करे तरवारि.
Rahim says we should never throw away small things for the lure of bigger one. There are places where only a needle is useful instead of a sword