THE KEY MINDSETS THAT CONFIDENT MEN HAVE
1// Confident men have an intense belief that they are highly valuable, what they have to offer has substantial worth, and that women would be fortunate to be with them. These mindsets aren't a gimmick or tactic, but real belief.
1// Confident men have an intense belief that they are highly valuable, what they have to offer has substantial worth, and that women would be fortunate to be with them. These mindsets aren't a gimmick or tactic, but real belief.
Confident men believe in themselves truly and sincerely from the bottom of their heart. They don't pretend they believe they deserve her. They authentically believe it.
REMEMBER THIS:
In the game of seduction, one often gets what he believes he deserves.
REMEMBER THIS:
In the game of seduction, one often gets what he believes he deserves.
If you think she is out of your league, she will be.
If you think she in your league, she will be.
Confidence quickly becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Women use a man's confidence levels as a mental shortcut to assess his social status in society.
If you think she in your league, she will be.
Confidence quickly becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Women use a man's confidence levels as a mental shortcut to assess his social status in society.
Hence, it is imperative to exude EXTREME CONFIDENCE when you are in the field.
2// Seize social power. By simply assuming a position of high-status - by acting "AS IF" you are already in authority, it will be given to you. Put simply: you are a 10, so fucking act like it!!
2// Seize social power. By simply assuming a position of high-status - by acting "AS IF" you are already in authority, it will be given to you. Put simply: you are a 10, so fucking act like it!!
And if you are a 10, but behave like an 11 then people will simply assume that you are an 11.
Women take cues on how treat you based on your self-image, and behaviors.
3// Exude powerful body-language. Dominant body language is a short-cut to communicate to her primal side.
Women take cues on how treat you based on your self-image, and behaviors.
3// Exude powerful body-language. Dominant body language is a short-cut to communicate to her primal side.
THE WORLD IS YOUR HOME.
When a woman interacts with you, she is a guest and you are the host. Hence, have interactions occur on your terms. Have her play by the cards that you deal because you are at the cause - pulling strings; this is superior to always being in reaction mode.
When a woman interacts with you, she is a guest and you are the host. Hence, have interactions occur on your terms. Have her play by the cards that you deal because you are at the cause - pulling strings; this is superior to always being in reaction mode.
4// BE EXTREMELY AGGRESSIVE in going after what you want in life - whether its girls, business deals or any ideal that you set your mind upon.
Confident men have a fierce belief in their ability to TACKLE ANYTHING that life throws at them. It's this belief that inspires women.
Confident men have a fierce belief in their ability to TACKLE ANYTHING that life throws at them. It's this belief that inspires women.
Some men have been beta their entire lives.
They have been brainwashed to be chronic people-pleasers - always putting everyone's needs and goals above their own; then they get surprised "why the fuck did I get nowhere in life?"
FUCK BEING NICE.
Be a predator - not a prey.
They have been brainwashed to be chronic people-pleasers - always putting everyone's needs and goals above their own; then they get surprised "why the fuck did I get nowhere in life?"
FUCK BEING NICE.
Be a predator - not a prey.
5// Confident men have enough self-respect and self-esteem to walk away from a connection with a woman that is no longer serving them. They'll walk away without looking back. Why? Because they recognize their worth enough to have REAL STANDARDS and be SELECTIVE IN CHOOSING.
6// Confidence comes from competence and clarity.
When you know what it is that you want then you are far more likely to get it. This is a simple truth but is often not applied.
Know what you want out of the marketplace. Sharpen your skills consistently and you will be sharp.
When you know what it is that you want then you are far more likely to get it. This is a simple truth but is often not applied.
Know what you want out of the marketplace. Sharpen your skills consistently and you will be sharp.
7// Be assertive. Stand up for yourself.
When you aren't willing to walk away from a woman (and you have no clear boundaries) then she intuitively senses that she has you by the balls, and loses respect. When respect fades, so does attraction.
Always retain "walk away power".
When you aren't willing to walk away from a woman (and you have no clear boundaries) then she intuitively senses that she has you by the balls, and loses respect. When respect fades, so does attraction.
Always retain "walk away power".
8// Confident men are confident in their ability to win in the game of life.
And that comes from winning.
When one wins a lot, he starts to believe that he is a winner and that he can achieve anything that he sets his mind to.
And that comes from winning.
When one wins a lot, he starts to believe that he is a winner and that he can achieve anything that he sets his mind to.
He starts to believe in himself and develops a sexy aura of "I HAVE GOT MY SHIT TOGETHER" that women find irresistible.
In contrast, someone who has his entire life falling apart because he is a broke loser with a dead-end job, no marketable skills and no plan for the future...
In contrast, someone who has his entire life falling apart because he is a broke loser with a dead-end job, no marketable skills and no plan for the future...
...leaks the perception of incompetence.
When one is good at the game of life, he exudes a sexy confidence that communicates to others "I'VE GOT THIS. I CAN TAKE CARE OF MYSELF. And I CAN potentially TAKE CARE of ANYONE IN MY INNER-CIRCLE."
It's this frame that women find sexy.
When one is good at the game of life, he exudes a sexy confidence that communicates to others "I'VE GOT THIS. I CAN TAKE CARE OF MYSELF. And I CAN potentially TAKE CARE of ANYONE IN MY INNER-CIRCLE."
It's this frame that women find sexy.
9// BE SOCIALLY FEARLESS.
Make moves to metaphorically take what you want in the sexual market place.
Social inhibitions, hesitations and insecurities undermine confidence. Let go of being stuck in your head when interacting with women. Express yourself fully and boldly.
Make moves to metaphorically take what you want in the sexual market place.
Social inhibitions, hesitations and insecurities undermine confidence. Let go of being stuck in your head when interacting with women. Express yourself fully and boldly.
10// Confident men are comfortable with social tension.
They don't rush to make others feel extra comfortable.
Nor do they rush to appease with bribes, try extra hard, or go out of their way to impress: to compensate for them "not being enough".
They don't rush to make others feel extra comfortable.
Nor do they rush to appease with bribes, try extra hard, or go out of their way to impress: to compensate for them "not being enough".
Instead, they confident men assume attraction.
They take the frame that *she already likes them*, and that *he is enough as is*.
He doesn't have to go over-the-top to compensate for insecurities, or to keep selling to someone who is already sold.
IT IS ON.
JUST FUCKING CLOSE.
They take the frame that *she already likes them*, and that *he is enough as is*.
He doesn't have to go over-the-top to compensate for insecurities, or to keep selling to someone who is already sold.
IT IS ON.
JUST FUCKING CLOSE.
11// Confident men are extremely comfortable in their own skin. They are absolutely "hyper relaxed" - almost appearing to be "too relaxed".
REMEMBER THIS:
Calmness shows confidence; nervousness shows self-doubt.
When you know you're gold, you don't feel shy or nervous.
REMEMBER THIS:
Calmness shows confidence; nervousness shows self-doubt.
When you know you're gold, you don't feel shy or nervous.
12// Confident men are not in approval-seeking or reaction-seeking mode.
Why?
Because they already have approval from themselves.
They don't give a fuck what you think, or if you approve
because they approve themselves and that's all that matters.
Why?
Because they already have approval from themselves.
They don't give a fuck what you think, or if you approve
because they approve themselves and that's all that matters.
You won't find a confident man asking:
- "Do you like me?"
- "Are you having fun?"
- "Is it okay if I do XYZ?"
Because they have a strong sense of self-importance.
"Of course, she likes me! Of course, she's having fun because she's with me!"
- "Do you like me?"
- "Are you having fun?"
- "Is it okay if I do XYZ?"
Because they have a strong sense of self-importance.
"Of course, she likes me! Of course, she's having fun because she's with me!"
Here is a useful psychological tactic to condition your mind:
Ask yourself: "How would I act if I was 100% certain that she liked me? How would I behave if I knew I was the sexiest man alive?"
Imagine and visualize it. Now behave like it was true starting THIS MOMENT!
Ask yourself: "How would I act if I was 100% certain that she liked me? How would I behave if I knew I was the sexiest man alive?"
Imagine and visualize it. Now behave like it was true starting THIS MOMENT!
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