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May 21, 2020 6 tweets 2 min read Read on X
For folks like this, do you consider it a blessing or curse?
For me, it can feel like a curse b/c so often I'm not in a position to do anything about it & so I end up having to watch as (what seems) avoidable become reality.
I'm not sure what the answer is, but part of the dilemma is that our communities often have a gap btwn those w/ authority for decision making & those w/ gifts of foresight/discernment.
Those who have ability to see potential problems can come across as pessimists & nobody wants that kind of negative energy in an organization, do we?
Obviously, this is a much larger, much more complicated conversation, but I wonder the degree to which our communities & churches reward positivity & optimism to the loss of warnings.
The last chapter in #AllThatsGood deals w/ this Q: How can we live with one another, benefit from each others' gifts, & also allow for dissent? How can those who offer warnings find the patience to wait while others process them?

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Somebody help me with this: politico.com/news/magazine/…
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Does this equate to “the cross was the unfair scapegoating of Christ on which we cast our own sins to avoid responsibility so the lesson is take responsibility for yourself”? If so… it explains a lot
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I rarely QT for purposes of correction but this is a good example of what I was trying to identify in threads earlier this week: B/c Vance inaccurately defines the problems families face, he offers solutions that make no sense
1. Most people would naturally pick family to care for their kids if they can. Needing to use non-familial childcare means that they've most likely already tried that option. Grandma & grandpa may not live nearby or have the ability or desire to care for grandkids.
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Look, you can turn a blind eye to the predation of women, rally behind a man know for sexual debauchery, & then act shocked at women who don’t marry men & have kids.
If you promote a sexual economy where men are free to do whatever they want w/ little to no accountability, the only way women can have even a measure of safety is by not partnering w/ them in things that require deep trust & commitment
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1) kill them
2) create structures to control them
3) make life difficult so they leave
4) engage in politics

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More to the point, if you’re not doing the work of politics as a means of actively seeking reconciliation w/ your neighbor, you’re doing one of the other three. Our options are good faith engagement thru shared process or coercion & violence.
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This is beautiful & reminds me that I've had an essay brewing for a couple years about link btwn male loneliness/depression & cultures that prioritize male comfort & privilege.
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