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The fastest way to destroy a career is to take on responsibility for which you’re not ready.

It marks you as a failure and makes your next step more difficult.

Barcelona wants you; but sometimes your best move is to stay at Dortmund while building the stamina for the next move.
The fastest way to advance a career is to take on responsibility for which you’re not ready.

It marks you as a winner and makes your next step easier.

Arsenal wants you on the bench but you feel ready to start at Bayern. Make the move; learn on the job.

#Gnabry
Life is not one size fits all.

Pray for wisdom to know when to move and when to sit still.

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