My wife was a virgin too
We were both Christians although my
wife had a background in another
religion
Our relationship was a very good one
I met her in the choir at the local church
we were attending when we were teenagers
Those days she
knowledge and hangout with members of the
teens and young adult church
None of us knew she was not a Christian
until we decided we needed to know one another's
houses for the purpose of follow up and deepening
friendship ties. That
was hanging out with church folks!
Nobody witnessed to her or tried to convert her, she just liked Christianity and started coming to church but at that time she didn't give
Our relationship became personal when we got to the University
I joined the campus
The choir director heard her voice and designated her the soloist right then and there
We were both strangers in a big school and naturally got drawn together
That was how feelings began to grow
The campus fellowship held a revival once during the second semester and a very popular Man of God came to minister
My wife sang with the choir
After singing, she couldn't stop crying
She cried throughout the service and walked
her conversion was so real and contagious
That day, many people came to the altar crying for salvation
it was as if a spirit of repentance was unleashed
My wife decided after that day to stop pretending she was still of the
She changed her made of dressing and really stepped out for what she believed in
When we were going on holidays, she refused to dress as she used to
She went home a Christian
It was an "If I perish, I perish" mindset
Something strange happened the day she went home
She didn't pray for him
In fact, it happened the moment she stepped into her father's compound
Her father asked her why she changed religion
She told her father of her love for Jesus
Her father accepted it
Her father had disowned two other children and his own younger sister for converting
The penalty for disowning their religion was that severe
and yet her father said everyone should leave her alone
She was allowed to do whatever she liked!
After we graduated, we decided to get married
I got a job with a mobile phone retailers while she got a job with a bank
Three weeks after our marriage, her stepmother (Her father had three wives) suddenly arrived our house on a Saturday morning
She said she wanted her daughter to stay with us and help out with chores, in return she expected us to train the young lady
It was very unexpected but she came prepared not to take no for an answer
(I had discussed getting a maid
After a lot of back and forth (We promised to pay the young lady's school fees and all)
That night I had a dream
My wife and the young lady brought me some food in different plates
My wife stood by my left
The young lady stood by my right
When my wife opened her plate, the food in it was rotten
When the young lady opened
I didn't eat either of the food but from that day i found myself developing a dislike for my wife
It was so bad that I would sleep in the guest room while pretending to work overnight so as not to sleep beside her
She was always farting
When my wife noticed, she started complaining and it led to constant fights
Pastors got involved and so did friends
I stopped eating her food, i stopped everything
She tried her best to explain what she felt she did wrong and how she had adjusted while i remained aloof
I understood what they were all telling me and i would agree but I cannot change how I felt within
I hated her so much
She came on a Friday night with the intention of passing the night and leaving the following morning
As soon as i returned home from the office and she saw me, she started thanking me by saying "My son, thank
I kept politely nodding and saying "Thank God
My wife went to sleep at about 9pm
I was watching TV in the sitting room when the words came back to me "Jutting breast, lavish backside, hips, I have spent so much, her beauty is out...
The words played in my mind all night, those words...
i bought a lot of clothes for my wife's step sister
When i got home at around 4pm
I gave the clothes and told her to try them on one by one
She obliged me
I would help her adjust the collar or the bra strap or something
I had been without sex for almost two months because I couldn't stand my wife
My wife's step-sister was irresistible (Not that i resisted, she didn't resist too)
We started having sex that day
At first, it was in secret but we grew bolder and
I didn't know how that discussion started but my wife's step-sister had this hold on me that I cannot shake!
I was lost in her, covered by a fog of willingness and compliance
The day she told me to beat my wife, I did so gladly
I was lost brother Gbenga
I was so lost
I didn't know how to think anymore
I didn't have control over my own feelings or behavior
I remember shouting at you to get out of my house
I remember seeing you smile and
I remember my wife running after you begging you to come back
I remember my wife's step-sister running upstairs
I slept off on the couch a few minutes later...
At first, it was in secret but we grew
bolder and started making plans of how
to get rid of my wife.
I didn't know how that discussion started
but my wife's step-sister had this hold on
me that I cannot shake!