(A thread with examples bc I like using irl examples when possible)
Pre-contemplation is before the change. Where a lot of our families are.
"I do not recognize a need to change, therefore I will not change."
you are talking to someone in the stage of pre-contemplation. And you will NEVER win a debate because this person WILL NOT let you.
"So you're woke now."
This right here is a warning sign. When someone reacts with sarcasm, they are already in fight mode and are defending themselves.
Prime examples of a person who WILL NOT CHANGE no matter what you say. When someone does this, it's because you have directly challenged them.
A LOT of your family will fight.
Say your facts. Say the definitions. And be done. Because when you push against someone in the stage of pre-contemplation, they will fight, flee, or freeze. Your job is not to win an argument. Your job is to educate.
Advocacy and activism are about educating the public. It is hard and draining for this reason.
Teach with facts, do not fight with opinions.
These are the people you want to talk to.
Stay safe, stay healthy!
Stay healty and stay safe, everyone!
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