The longer you wait, the longer the situation becomes detached from them and they forget exactly what they did, how they felt, and feel blindsided when it's brought up weeks after.
(Make sure you're mentally calm though.)
Bring it up privately.
GENERALLY (again, situations vary), you shouldn't call them out publicly. When ppl are called out, a normal gut reaction is to get defensive and it only increases when they're around ppl they like/respect. This gets in the way of reflection and change.
Address the behaviour, not the person.
Labelling feels like an attack. Instead of saying "YOU'RE a bad person", instead say "[Thing you said] hurt them."
Labelling creates defensiveness and doesn't actually communicate what the actual upsetting behaviour was.
Write it down.
I get confrontations are scary, and nerve-wracking. Especially if it's a friend!
Write down what you want to say so you remember to say EVERYTHING you needed to, and don't back down from nerves or forget.
Build a golden bridge.
A golden bridge is basically letting someone exit a situation with no shame. After confrontations, ppl are usually upset or wracked with guilt. Give them time to reflect and change their mind. No need to be snarky and say things like "I told you so".
They might be upset.
Finally, not all confrontations go smoothly. This is normal. Your friend may be upset with you. I'm sorry.
But a positive relationship should let you both bring up uncomfortable situations that allow you to grow. And a truly good friend will understand.
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A new white paper on ✨mobile gaming, TikTok, and strategies for success.✨ Conducted by TikTok (and the National Research Group), so read with a grain of salt.
But even if you're not making a mobile game, it has some good insight!! 👇
The mobile gaming landscape has changed! The formula for success now consists of 3 things:
1⃣ Cultural relevance: pay attention to trends & where gamers are
2⃣ Connections: prioritize long term player trust, loyalty, and feedback
3⃣ Community: create group identity and belonging
📳 MOBILE GAMING 📳
📱 Global gaming spend in mobile is more than the PC, console, and handheld markets combined
📱 Mobile gaming growth is coming from Asia and Latin America
📱 South Korea, Brazil, Turkey, and Mexico have had the biggest increase in spend over past 2 years
"Hi I'm a solo dev/small team and we don't have a budget to hire anyone, I have no time to do marketing, and/or I hate marketing. How can I build a community?"
My answer: 👁️👄👁️ You can't.
Or at least, not really? Let's talk about it.
👇
1) You need to invest *some* sort of resource
You can't just do nothing and expect things to happen.
Imagine saying you don't have a budget to hire for art or make it, but you still expect a gorgeous game. Marketing is an investment and deserves thoughtful space in your plans.
2) No money? Use time
Normally spend 8 hours/day programming? Cool! Shave an hour off programming to invest into marketing. It doesn't need to be intense.
*Someone* needs to prioritize posting content, strategizing visibility, and creating connections.
so overtime i've had to try and explain to game communities why devs cannot "just" implement things, or why something takes months and not a week.
here is my non-exhaustive list:
1.
- making sure it works on all devices
- ^ mobile devices in particular are a nightmare with all their different versions, updates, and operating systems
- if being ported to different devices, needing to rework the art/UX
- legal blockers (contract revisions, approvals, etc.)
2.
- abiding by appropriate media and platform policies
- potentially breaking servers for millions of people
- making sure it's actually fun
- if doing stuff with external partners, fitting their timelines, events, specific requirements or additions to your game
OK quick tips for press/influencers on reaching out for keys when a game is days away from launch.
I already have little patience to deal with vague inquiries, and when we're nearing game launch?? hooOOoo boy
🧵👇
1) My inbox is a wreck.
Games generally get the most hype and requests the closer to launch. Every single day I'm getting at least 10 emails for keys (depends hype of the game.)
I have NO time, so I need you to help me make it as easy as possible to justify giving you a key.
2) Tips on ur outreach email:
- A way to verify your email
- Links
- Sentence about relevancy/why this game is interesting to ur audience/how does this benefit me if I give you a free game?
- STATS. Page views! Concurrent viewers! Community size! Etc!
Based on touting your game's benefits and why it's fun.
Example:
- Pupperazzi: "Take photos of cute dogs and upgrade your camera"
- Mondo Museum: "Put your creativity on display to curate the world's best museum!"
So many cool game marketing peeps have a newsletter and now I want one 😤 Except all it'd be is
1) article links I bookmarked for later, forgot about, and oops never looked at again 2) the 67 GDC talks I've been "meaning" to watch 3) screaming
Anyways here are my recommendations for Fricken Good Game Marketing Newsletters™:
🗻 @AdventureMtn - How To Market a Game
- King of email marketing
- Sooo many interesting, researched, and unique topics
- Taught me the phrase "spaceship ass"
📽️ @Derek_Lieu - Game Trailer Editing
- Learn how to make damn good trailers
- Very good breakdown of how to "look" at trailers and what makes them so appealing
- There's always a cat pic