~ Sabi Boy
If she's younger than 23, do not take her serious. Most women in this age group are going to be chronically irresponsible, dishonest, flakey and irrational. They're going to have sex with lots of men (even if they say they won't), get drunk and do drugs.
If she's younger than 23, do not take her serious. Most women in this age group are going to be chronically irresponsible, dishonest, flakey and irrational. They're going to have sex with lots of men (even if they say they won't), get drunk and do drugs.
They will leave you more quickly and sometimes for no reason and do all kinds of similar things.
And you know what? That is all fine.
Lite-relationship types with women within the ages 18 to 23 are what you should aim for anyways. No carrying that shit on top of your head!
And you know what? That is all fine.
Lite-relationship types with women within the ages 18 to 23 are what you should aim for anyways. No carrying that shit on top of your head!
1. If she's irresponsible, lead with kindness.
2. If she's dishonest, but it doesn't necessarily affect anything, don't care. If it IS serious, it's your fault for taking her serious 🤷♀️
3. If she's flakey (she makes and cancels dates...
2. If she's dishonest, but it doesn't necessarily affect anything, don't care. If it IS serious, it's your fault for taking her serious 🤷♀️
3. If she's flakey (she makes and cancels dates...
Has no control of her schedule, does not bother to contact you to explain what may have come up) ; have other things doing with your day or meet someone else. Better yet, fuck someone else. You'll feel a lot better.
4. If she's just plain irrational, don't communicate logically.
4. If she's just plain irrational, don't communicate logically.
A common pattern of most men is to act surprised when girls this age behave like teenagers. (because that's what they basically are on a mental and psychological level) what do you expect?
Never expect these girls to act like adults!
When they behave like stupid teenagers that they are, do not be shocked. Nod your head and smile. Expect such behavior and plan accordingly, even if they seem smarter and more mature than girls their age.
When they behave like stupid teenagers that they are, do not be shocked. Nod your head and smile. Expect such behavior and plan accordingly, even if they seem smarter and more mature than girls their age.
This does not mean you should treat these girls bad. That will cause problems. It just means that you should be more realistic and adjust your expectations.
As for the young men, you may not have a choice than to date girls like this. Understand the principles in my threads and you will also be prepared for anything. You will not be amused.
Now. Much of that is a generalization. There ARE about 10 to 20% of girls under 23 that CAN be taken seriously. However you are on the safe side if you operate realistically with these women. Always manage your emotions and consider all possibilities. No fanciful thinking!
Feel free to dm me if you would like me to address certain topics other than the cardinal rules.
This was a brief interlude.
I will continue on with the cardinal rules in the next threads and will bounce between topics from time to time.
This was a brief interlude.
I will continue on with the cardinal rules in the next threads and will bounce between topics from time to time.
