Thread by @savndaniel

What kind of parenting will make a child become extremely dense, profane, to the extent that he makes bold threat of wanting to rape people's mother? All time.

One of the hardest tasks to achieve is to have a good and consistent parenting style. And this is most understandable for almost every parent.

However, one fact remains that bad parenting that can have lasting consequences on children.

Bad parenting has the consequences of making a child become antithesis of the preachments of his parent's seemingly training. It can make a child become extremely self-destructive: they end up as the direct opposite of their parent's desire.

Most poor and baf parenting may not be intentional. And I agree, but this does not reduce its negative impact on the child. Some parents are not aware of the consequences of these actions and some might not even care. No parent should condone a child that cherishes profanity.

Islam discourages profanity. This why you must constantly have an honest conversation with other parents and listen to any advice they might have. If there are any signs of the effects of poor parenting in your child, it might be best to consult a child psychologist.

When a child takes pleasure in threatening to hurt, rape; abuse people's parents, there is a strong likelihood of that child running foul of the law. It may not be today. But soon. The children of kings, by all standards, are trained to be pristine.

Parents that do nothing when their children glorify rape and other societal vices, may soon be comforted to take heart soon, when their child is ruin. For all its worth, POWER IS TRANSIENT.

Nobody wields it forever! Only God/Allah does.

The solemn dictates of Allah is instructs parents to take prime responsibility to teach their children (in a literal sense and of their character) to be a pious Muslims.

I can boast any day, anytime, that I do not have any Muslim friend that GLORIFIES PROFANITY AND RAPE.

In Islam, the best gift to a child by his parents is his PROPER UPBRINGING. It is vital in Islam, cos a child that is not properly brought up, will attract scorn to Islam - which is a religion of peace. Islam moulds character and make the individual the pride of the society.

Generally, in Islam the intention and aim of every parent is to make their children become responsible and benefit for themselves, in the afterlife.

A child that is extremely dense, profane with penchant for being vulgar and wanting to rape other people's mother, is only

...reproducing what he has been exposed to overtime.

Allah’s Messenger once said:

“Everyone of you is a guardian and is responsible for his charges. The ruler who has authority over people, is a guardian and is responsible for them; a man is a guardian of his family

and is responsible for them; a woman is a guardian of her husband’s house and children and is responsible for them; a slave is a guardian of his master’s property and is responsible for it; so all of you are guardians and are responsible for your charges.”

- [Sahih al-Bukhari]

Generally, children imitate their parents more than anyone. If you find any undesired behaviour in your child, CHECK IF YOU OR YOUR SPOUSE HAS ACTED SIMILARLY IN FRONT OF YOUR CHILD.

PREACHING THAT LYING IS A SIN AND THEN LYING IN FRONT OF CHILDREN WILL NOT HELP.

Advocating against rape when your own children are professors of rape and profanity, is an established example of FAILED/BAD/IRRESPONSIBLE parenting.

The Messenger of Allah is reported to have said:

“Verily Allah the Almighty has laid down fara’id (religious obligations), so do not neglect them. He has set boundaries, so do not overstep them. He has prohibited some things, so do not violate them; about some things

He was silent, out of compassion for you, not forgetfulness, so seek not after them.” - Hadith Nawawi

The concept of the fitrah is mentioned in the Qur’an and Sunnah as the innate aspect of human nature each of us is born with. The fitrah is naturally inclined toward the worship of Allah and toward morality.

When parents provide the ideal environment in which to strengthen and maintain the child’s natural disposition to believe in Allah and TO LIVE BY THE MORAL COMPASS AND GUIDANCE ISLAM PROVIDES, the fitrah will remain strong and protected from corruption,

enabling the child to remain steadfast in faith and practice.