"How do I get her to stop talking to other guys", "How do I get her to stop denying me sex" "How do I get her to respect me". These are questions many ask themselves when dealing with difficult women. I will discuss how to deal with DIFFICULT women.
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The one secret to dealing with difficult women is... YOU DONT! You leave her straight away...
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Jokes... The problem with this question is where is it coming from? A place of scarcity or abundance? This is the WRONG question fueled by the WRONG focus. You're focusing on her & not YOU. The real question is: How do I set MYSELF up to not have to deal with difficult women?
Women aren't binary or monolithic, just cause she's a bitch or disrespectful to you, doesn't mean she'll do it to everybody. Sometimes its because you're not high value enough, sometimes she's just outta line. Eitherway your answer is to withdraw attention & LEAVE HER.
Whatever she does that you don't like, you should correct her, if she refuses to listen, YOU SHOULD LEAVE HER! This concept is easy to grasp, but tough to execute. Main reason being the LACK OF ALTERNATIVE OPTIONS.
How many of you have tested your current gfs/wifes on their ability to bring value? A small percentage I'm sure. How many of your gfs actually EARNED a relationship with you, not the other way around? Almost none. Then you wonder why she doesnt respect that relationship or YOU.
Truth is women no longer come ready made for relationships in 2020. Being raised by bitter single mothers, weak absent fathers, Hollywood, Reality TV, Social media validation, broken celebrities & FEMINISM has left many modern women with the INABILITY to be a decent partner.
They know what a good woman is, but the CHOOSE not to be one because they refuse to be "oppressed". In 2020 you cant just commit on a whim. You MUST non-exclusively evaluate her for at least 6 months & test her character/devotion to you before you commit.
Why don't men do this? Because they get committed out of scarcity & convenience. The truth is most men commit to women for SEX, shes petulant, excessive, difficult but you only deal with her cause you're afraid of losing your access to SEX
Outside of valuable, dutiful & pleasant girlfriends, most frustrated men would break up/cheat on their difficult girlfriends if they suddenly had access to sex with multiple beautiful women.
How does this relate to dealing with difficult women? OPTIONS. You should never have to deal with a difficult woman because the availability of better women would render that hag irrelevant. Only reason you can't drop your own insufferable hag is because you lack OPTIONS.
For you struggling to leave the friendzone or your insufferable gf, you have a fear of not being to do better, a crippling SCARCITY MENTALITY. How do you sort this? Its very simple.
Work on your body, mind, humour, style & your game. Approach plenty women, get rejected, formulate an indifference towards their disapproval. Expiriment with your comebacks, lines, tonality, touch, expression, storytelling etc... to find your game.
You should leave any woman who isn't up to your standards. Problem is, you don't have alternatives, & you'll feel like leaving her for being disrespectful/turning down intimacy/going out to parties is crazy. Your scarcity is crippling you & you need crutches before you can walk
Keep that difficult girl as crutches as you learn to walk towards abundance. Go back to her as & when you need to, but always keep approaching. You will eventually build the confidence & alternative options to leave the difficult woman that you should've ages ago.
As you grow in experience with women, you'll be able to be more selective & intolerant of bullshit. Your amount of options & the confidence in yourself will directly impact the swiftness of your ability to cut out difficult women whether they've known you for a day or a year.
Being abundant is beautiful. You can cut a girl for the smallest thing, you talk to women differently, you suddenly see they're not THAT special. You will be in a situation where you have the sex you want while multiple women seek relationships with you at YOUR DISCRETION.
Remember, a man who is struggling to find a meal will never have a great diet as he will take what he can get. The wider the options on your menu, the more pedantic you can be about your diet. The better your options, the more ruthlessly selective you can be. FOCUS!
