The Bitter Ugly Truth-
You may not like what you read. That’s fine. We can like, dislike. In most cases, the truth, especially the bitter, ugly truth will always hurt us, but we can use that hurt to motivate a change in our lives, thinking, actions, behaviours and feelings.
You may not like what you read. That’s fine. We can like, dislike. In most cases, the truth, especially the bitter, ugly truth will always hurt us, but we can use that hurt to motivate a change in our lives, thinking, actions, behaviours and feelings.
Use it the right way! We have been made to believe that our generation is advanced, when unfortunately that’s a lie. Yes we may have advanced in technology, medicine and a lot more, but we’ve missed something huge!
Only because we’ve gone back several steps when it comes to health care, which is more and more becoming sick care, we are failing at relationships, families, values, lifestyle etc ..
A lot of people have so much more in terms of wealth, material things etc, but most of them feel empty inside, unfulfilled and not content. Most people can travel extensively, take more holidays etc but are still restless and chaotic inside of themselves.
We are sicker than ever, fatter, fatigued, despite so many doctors, nutritionists, gyms, organic food, therapists etc. Lifestyles have gone from bad to worse. Most people measure their lifestyle based on comfort, money and material things..
Lifestyle is a lot more than that and it includes your health, fitness levels, emotional state of mind, relationships, family etc. We don't need softer people. We need stronger and more assertive children and adults.
Over the last decade we’ve seen a softer generation and we have more emotionally weak people. We have seen a massive rise in emotional and mental health problems, suicides and depression. People have gotten to soft and soft cannot work out in a world like us.
We need strong and assertive. Physically, emotionally, spiritually, mentally and intellectually stronger people. The real world includes winning and losing . When we teach the youth and kids that “ everybody wins “ that’s a lie!
They grow up thinking this is the truth and the moment they step out into the world, and are hit with reality of win- lose, politics, deceit, manipulation etc, they crumble into depression, drugs, binge drinking and other vices ...
Women have immense capabilities and ability to build companies, run companies etc. No doubt, but they also own the responsibility of providing time, attention and genuine love to their kids.
Have nannies and servants, but you still own the responsibility to provide these basics to your kids, or Simple, don't have any, that’s fine too!
There’s not point in depriving your child of these basics and allowing them to grow into emotionally starved teenagers, now that’s failure!
Men, our jobs are to protect and provide for our families, it's in our genes, and it is our job to do so. Sitting at home, living with your parents because you don't have money or a job is not cool. Go and find something, anything but work , provide and protect.
If you have the physical capability, your job is to work and not sit in front of the TV all day! Get up and move ..Have some self respect ....
Easy money and inheritance handed down to the younger generation is the easiest way to spoil them, grow them into privilege brats who have no taste of hardships and life. You set them up to fail.
They grow emotionally weak, use their material things as a cover to show, but inside they lack identity because the bitter truth is that are living on money and wealth handed down.
Give it to them at the right time, put it in a trust fund, whatever, but your job is to mound them into adults with values and values come from living life. Provide comfort and a great life if you must to, but teach them life too.
After all we all know money cant buy happiness, peace and health. Children need love, attention and security and this is the responsibility of the parents and not the nanny’s or servants! If you cant provide this or have the time to, don't have kids for the sake of having.
