When people say “there’s room for all of us in the body positive movement” in response to people having negative reactions to size 6 people hunching over to show their stomach folds....
Uh no, no there is not. There is no room for my fat friends that need it most.
I get the need to normalize bodies & I get that we all deserve to be seen. But this trend continues to shove people in larger bodies out of the picture once again.
Their photos aren’t met with “omg you’re so brave and inspiring.” It’s met with “bitch you’re promoting ob*sity.”
It’s also really interesting that positive body image and #bodypositivity has become about loving what we look like.
What about knowing that our worth comes from SO much more than our appearance? 🙏🏼
Here’s just the tiniest example of what I mean.
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Every time I get on a plane, I feel absolutely sick to my stomach — terrified that the person sitting next to me will take a picture of me and I’ll end up being mocked on the internet.
Put your anger on the airlines for making seats smaller & smaller.
Interesting how it’s never a picture of a really tall person impeding the other person’s space.
Instead, we are supposed to be discuss whether a fat person deserves basic humanity and dignity.
If body size was a choice like so many people think it is, do you think I’d choose to have a body that is hated, mocked, and ridiculed? A body that denies me safe medical care and the ability to travel comfortably?
It’s so easy to call us lazy and undisciplined, huh?
If you need to eat this Yom Kippur because you’re in ED recovery, please know that eating is not just permissible, but a MITZVAH.
Your connection & spirituality happens through eating, not restricting. Hashem doesn’t want you to be harming yourself in the name of religion.
Obviously, please confirm with a treatment team + Rabbi who understands eating disorders and mental health. But your mental and physical health comes first. 💗
I want to clarify that this is referring to ALL eating disorders. Not just anorexia. Your mental health and recovery is a priority whether you struggle with restricting, bingeing, purging, or any other ED behaviors.
I used to be concerned that sharing my negative experiences in ED treatment would be harmful to people attempting to get help.
But no more beating around the bush. ED treatment is built for thin, rich white women and it’s a broken system that doesn’t work.
I said what I said.
I’m not trying to be an asshole but until treatment is created for ALL people in mind, more people will continue to be harmed and retraumatized in treatment.
Black people, trans people, fat people... they deserve safe care. And the current system does not provide that.
Also, OBVIOUSLY there are exceptions! Of course there are people who’ve found treatment lifesaving but overall, the system is often ineffective if not not harmful and it’s important to be talking about this.
When I was around 19 & roughly the weight I am now,I went to an endocrinologist bec my RD & I couldn’t figure out why I was my size given how I ate.
(Spoiler alert: body diversity is a thing but my ED RD wasn’t aware)
It was also the only period of recovery I’d ever experienced
TW calories
The endo forced me on the scale after I pleaded not to &then said I had 2 options.I could get WLS or I could eat less than 1k cal a day w 1 hour vigorous exercise daily.
Yes, she was aware of my ED of 10 yrs (at that pt) that I was was just starting to recover from
Imagining what it could’ve been like to have been told, your body isn’t broken, you aren’t broken. You can trust your body and it’s okay.