Thread by @Cernovich

Real Shit I Wish Someone had Told me When I was a Young man.

Thread:

1. Bankruptcy is not a big deal. It really isn't. Go ALL THE FUCK IN.

If you fail, whatever, fuck it, you can always get a real job or some other shit.

MANY successful people have a BK in their background.

2. Successful men are like attractive women - they'll just leave you on read.

If your social skills are weak, BYE.

No one is going to fucking teach you how to not be a "too clever by half" annoying fuck.

There are lots of books to improve your social skills.

Read them.

3. Relationships are about vibe and energy. Your job as a younger man is to bring ENERGY. You don't have any wisdom. You think you do. You think you're so smart.

You're not.

But your energy, you have that.

Bring the Energy.

4. Most people are total vibe killers and momentum killers.

They use language like, "Just to chime in here," or "I have a slight nit to pick," and it's always some bullshit reason you "can't" do something.

Cut those people out of your life.

Immediately.

5. All men "just know stuff."

Even though they have no objective achievement.

Like this guy, just another loser normie who will never dare greatly or feel life deeply.

Do not be this man.

Do not be around this man.

6. There's a pecking order to life. Rushing in and trying to correct people, classic male behavior, gets you nuked. No one needs you around them. You're not that cool. You have to prove your worth.

7. Real life isn’t a debate society. It’s not a reddit board. Or social media. You prove yourself through your work not your clever boy arguments or empty words.

8. Failure isn’t that big of a deal. No one is keeping a report card. Once you make it, which may take decades, you won’t be even remember the low days.

9. Marry the wrong person and nothing you do will let your escape from that prison. Not even divorce, if you have kids.

Marry for VALUES, not cuz it’s fun to pop bottles.

Also if you don’t like his / her family, sorry, you can’t get married.

10. Alcohol is evil. Don’t start drinking, if at all, until you are basically set for life. Then enjoy fine wine and cocktails in moderation!

11. Don’t fear the PIVOT because sometimes you’re doing something that leads to something better.

Example, @MarcLobliner is a protein bar king.

He started with a YouTube and supplement biz but then hit it big on Outright bar.

Don’t let ego hold you back into older model.

12. Follow the metrics that matter.

You have any idea how many people BLEW IT because they listened to “what people said” vs what actual data showed?

Want me to keep going?