Opposite attract - INTENSE impulsive judgement & attraction reveal voids needing filling
Intense Impulsive Judgement & Attraction stem from the same root
The other person displays a quality they're are void in
"if someone is always commenting hate on everything you do they're not a hater they're a fan they just don't know it"
The man strongly judges the influencer
but the influencer is SYMBOLIC of what he is lacking...
We are articulating the subconscious & the ego
Essentially, right now we are putting emotional energy into words as best we can
When he judges he does not consciously know this.
He feels something and the impulse is to 'point the finger'
Because the man in the car triggered the emotion they direct their finger pointing at the man
But the man and his sports car are SYMBOLIC
👈🏽 Point 1 finger at others you'll see 3 pointing back at you
To rationalize why they feel this way in response to the man in the nice sports car
"He's thinks he so cool, small dick for sure"
"He needs all that money just to feel happy, I'm glad i'm not insecure and a show off like that"
🔑 The STRONGER the IMPULSE the bigger the void
🔎 Irrational impulsive & intense triggers reveal key parts of ourselves when we decode it
What does it represent?
Decode that to understand the root cause & the void behind behavioral responses to triggers
This is to articulate subconscious beliefs, bringing them into awareness
Making sense of what is experienced but not seen
Because the positive quality they possess is a reminder of that same quality not in possession
Truly 'let go' & forgive them and you too will reap the benefits of forgiveness
"He who angers you controls you"
But what about attraction?
Again keep in mind these 3 keywords:
Impulsive, Irrational, Intense
Scientifically the more we understand something the more we appreciate it. This reveals...
It gradually grows
Strong intense attraction with hardly any understanding of who the other person is reveals that person possesses a void within ourself
That badly wishes to be filled
In lust it is not them you truly are attracted to
It's the qualities they possess that you lack
Just like being triggered that person triggers a feeling 'point 1 finger' "I want them" you may think
These create extremely unhealthy co-dependent relationships
Where they "complete" each other instead of a healthy relationship in which they "compliment" each other
But even things that you don't think have deeper meaning often do
Niche sexual fetish's are often also SYMBOLIC
The way we do things are symbolic of our beliefs
Reality is a metaphor
Remember these: Intense, Impulsive, Irrational
Done properly you'll have successfully taken the subconscious roots and articulated them
Example:
Money problems are rarely 'money' problems
The absence of money is SYMBOLIC of behaviors and decisions made
The absence of good or the presence of bad is SYMBOLIC of our beliefs, desires, habits
The past is not to be replayed, relived, resided within
Revisit - extract the data you need, connect the dots, and resolve the problem
Thank you for reading
Cheers,
- Yous