With #IStandWithJKRowling trending as she returns an award she didn't deserve, it's important to point out a few things.
1. Her whole premise is based on the faulty logic that allowing trans people to pee and poop in the bathroom that matches their gender somehow erases sex. 1/
2. She, like those who say #IStandWithJKRowling, reference 1950's science in their argument, while ignoring 70 years of deeper investigation that has discovered many of the realities of gender vs body sex characteristics. 2/
3. Nothing in her rhetoric, or that of the #IStandWithJKRowling crowd who claim not to be transphobic, ever once seeks to open a dialogue focused on solutions. Instead it's always focused on telling others what they can and can't do with their own bodies. 3/
4. Note that she and her #IStandWithJKRowling cavalade focus exclusively on trans women, rarely ever even acknowledging the existence of trans men.
Can we all accept that problem-solving in society only happens when we lead with compassion and empathy? Let's #DoBetterBeBetter
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I've been dwelling on this response from @specterops' @jasonjfrank and whether to respond further. Considering some of the factors you're about to read, you'll see why I chose to take this point by point.
It'll be a thread since I refuse to pay the #MuskRansom.
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Let's talk first about the supposed out reach to many diverse speakers. I mean I freaking called it that the "pipeline" excuse would be the first response in my post and you STILL came at us with that response? If you couldn't find a single non-male non-white human,
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who could "make it" you weren't trying very hard. This is the lazy excuse we see from conferences and other events time and again when they pull this and it's so tired and phony.
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I'm not sorry I didn't live up to your expectations, those were, after all, yours not mine. I never claimed to be perfect, super human, or even a good person. I try to be all those things but I know I am not. 1/
Look, I can be selfish sometimes, I can be an a$$hole, I can be cruel and mean, and I can be hurtful. I make mistakes, I say and do dumb things, I make other people cry sometimes. It's part of being human, which I am. 2/
So what are my expectations of myself?
1. I expect myself to be self aware. I know I will make mistakes, I know I will do things I don't like, but my expectation is that when I do those things I can take a step back and analyze how I could have done better. 3/
OK I said I wasn't going to do this but I guess I am, so here goes and if I left you off, I'm sorry, please know I love you and it was just an omission. Some amazing women doing amazing things that I want to recognize on #IWD2022. A 🧵
@DeweyRitten my partner, pushing me to learn and grow, and conquer @LilMzMuffinCup amazing woman who inspires me @virulentvalor proving every day what force she is @invertedgeek an honor to watch your career launch @gabsmashh the most intelligent human I know
@CISAJen overcoming BS to make CISA great @BentleyAudrey beautiful woman whose always got my back @aprilwright another amazingly talented and intelligent friend @shehackspurple my appsec buddy doing amazing work to help others @ki_twyce_ a constant source of inspiration
Let me explain something. Cybe_rpunkfixer (subject of the original thread) attacked @gabsmashh, Ian Coldwater, myself and numerous other women. So calling me a troll and us a "mob" is an attack on us and a defense of an epic misogynist.
Cybe_rpunkfixer has been banned under multiple accounts, for his harassment. Jonathan defends him as a victim. Jonathan still, inconceivably, has an audience that are unaware of how phony and toxic he is. So calling it out, I hope helps them to see that so they don't
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get sucked in and taken advantage of by a known bad actor in our midst. So instead of saying ignore him and he'll go away, understand he hasn't gone away. He's carefully groomed an audience, duped many (including mainstream media) and is doing active damage to
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No joke I still remember the exact details. That was the day I started my first salaried job as a programmer. I had no degree (I was enrolled in a Computer Science program at Marquette University), no real documented dev experience.
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All of what I knew of programming was self-taught and a little theory from my course work that I had only just begun that semester. BASIC, Visual C++, and a little bit of VB.
I got hired to write code for a home banking and billpay application. It was the dot com era.
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Programmers were in high demand. The company that hired me provided banking software as a service (we called it a service bureau back then) to banks across the country. Consumers nationwide relied on the systems I maintained to manage their accounts and to pay their bills.
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I don't come from money. Growing up, we weren't poor, but near the bottom of the 80's middle class. I always dreamed of being in a better financial position than my parents, but swore I wouldn't forget where I came from.
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My first child (of 3) came when I was 17. Married at 21, I lived through nearly two decades of overdrawn bank accounts, maxed out credit cards, collection calls and threats of lawsuits.
Ultimately, we were fortunate. Never had a night where I couldn't scrounge
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something together for dinner. I have my family to thank for much of that.
So why I am I giving you this walk through Alyssa's past? Well because now in my 40's I'm in a position that I dreamed of as a child. Financially, while not rich by today's standards, I am in
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