We recreate the relationships we are used to. Some people are emotionally incapable of anything different.
High conflict people, for example, have no frame of reference for a life outside of an "us vs the world" mindset. Its deep.
So you burn bridges and create the drama, because then you know how to act. That kind of relationship makes sense and you have power
So you burn bridges and create the drama, because then you know how to act. That kind of relationship makes sense and you have power
A life relatively free of conflict, be it interpersonal, professional, whatever, is a place of anxiety. You're left wondering when the rig gets pulled out and to not be caught off guard, you just "get on with it" and sabotage what could have been for what has been
*rug
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