On Octobre 19th, 1957 Rosemarie Nitribitt (24) was strangled to death by an unknown killer. She was what people call a "high class escort", who could choose and refuse men, because of how much she made. But her murder was barely investigated by police to protect the famous johns.
Rosemarie was born in the 30s out of wedlock (would have been a social disgrace at the time), to a mother who neglected her and her sister and a father who abandoned all three of them. She was raped at 11 years of age while playing in the forest near her foster familys home.
The rapist is never caught and traumatized Rosemarie starts acting out which adults in her environment abuse to sexually exploit her at age 12 selling her over and over to French soldiers. She becomes pregnant at 14 and has an illegal abortion that nearly kills her.
She is repeatedly picked up by social services and put into homes from which she runs away. She is judged to be "loose with men" as she is perceived to repeatedly offer herself to adults. The police pick her up punishing her with forced labour for "indecent behaviour".
She escapes again and finds work as a housemaid, but slips back into prostitution. She is finally declared "insane" by authorities and put in a mental facility, later transferred to a nunnery. She escapes again and reunites with her mother. She is still just 17 years old.
She works again as a housemaid, intermittently making money via prostitution. Finally she meets a man she falls in love with and wants to marry. When she tells him that she is pregnant he abandons her and reports her to police who once again imprison her for "lawlessness".
Rosemarie again is intermittently in a care facility and in street prostitution. When she turns 18 all state support ends and she is on her own. She gets her own apartment and tries to leave prostitution, but to no avail. She is stuck having been exploited since she was 12!!!
She tries to make the best of it and establishes a reputation as "high class" meaning she has many famous "regulars" which enable her at 21 to afford an comfortable apartment and car. "She has made it" as some would say. Her income is 7x that of the average German in 1954.
Everyday around 17:00 Rosemarie (under pseudonym of "Rebecca") cruises into town in her Mercedes. She looks for men to pay her, picks them up and let's them out of the car when done. Her car is repeatedly damaged though including by someone carving swastikas into the paint.
On November 1st 1957 Rosemarie is found strangled to death in her own apartment at age 24. Police intentionally tamper with evidence and mess up the crime scene because they don't want to investigate the powerful men who were paying to access Rosemarie for the last several years.
Police make public statements that they're "not suspecting rich and established customers! These serious men didn't have to kill the girl, who had gifted them so much joy. That would have been ungrateful." Tax collectors take nearly half of the money Rosemarie left to her mother.
Rosemarie's mother puts up nearly all the money left to her as reward to anyone who can identify her daughter's murderer. An acquaintance is under suspicion for a long time since items where removed from her flat & he is suddenly in possession of lots of money but no proof arises
The remaining main murder suspects are all rich and famous sex buyers, including Harald von Bohlen und Halbach, Harald Quandt, Gunter Sachs and his brother Ernst Wilhelm Sachs - all sons of millionaire industrial giants with immense inherited wealth.
There is also Fritz Huschke von Hanstein, racing driver and former member of the SS in Nazi Germany. And finally jazz musician Joe Zawinul who dedicated an album to Rosemarie Nitribitt.
There are unconfirmed theories of politicans having been sex buyers of Rosemarie, including chancellor Ludwig Erhard, chancellor Kurt-Georg Kiesinger and president Gustav Heinemann. While they cannot be liberally accused of murder, head of governements being sex buyers is common.
In a final measure of disrespect police investigators remove Rosemarie Nitribit's head from her body to study the injuries inflicted, but keep the head forcing her mother and sister to bury her without it, only returning it 51 years later after repeated requests!
What I want both sides of the #prostitution debate to take away from this is 1) there are many many other stories like Rosemarie's and 2) please let this give you pause and stop telling the world that women in high class escorting are "safe", "empowered" or "privileged".
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The life of Joop Wilhelmus - an exemplary tale of many a "#sexualrevolution|ary's" extreme hatred of women and children...🧵
Joop Wilhelmus is born in 1944, son of a Communist, sent at an early age to GDR socialist fraternization camps. Begins writing in leftwing papers at 14. Noticed for his braggadocio, claims of having first had sex at 12 years of age, and attracting "hot chicks" with his politics.
Jumping on the bandwagon of the sexual revolution in the 60s he soon becomes one of the Netherlands' most notorious pornographers, founding (among others) the adult porn magazine "Chick" in 1968. His fans are proud of the fact that he is hated by "the bourgeoisie and feminists".
There's a new website educating about the largely forgotten and understudied history of Nazi military brothel networks during WWII by German feminist historian Anne S. Respondek. "The male right to sex" in full brutal force looks like this... 🧵wehrmachtsbordelle.de/2023/09/12/gla…
During their time in power the Nazi war machine established a brothel network stretching entire occupied territory. Brothels catered to (nearly) every sector of the male population incl. not just soldiers, SS, police and elites, but military allies, workers and even camp inmates.
The history is glossed over in large part because post-war Germany still maintained its hatred of prostituted/sexually exploited women while also wanting to justify its continuance of the prostitution system (openly in the West, covertly in the East).
One of Germanys biggest news magazines, Der Spiegel, headlines:
"We will be ashamed"
Deploring 20 years of failed German #prostitution policy.
Here's the story of how the law let women down, the people (often survivors) ringing the alarm & the politicians admitting the mistake
The article opens with the story of "Lena" (20), the victim of a "loverboy" pimp, a trafficker who makes their victim think they're in a loving relationship - in Lena's case a martial arts world champion. Atypical about her story is that he got sentenced to 6 years and 3 months.
Lena's story is not a singular case, the article explains. There are countless women and some men & trans people trafficked to Germany annually. Most traffickers dont have a day in court nevermind the men literally paying to rape, the latter's actions are only criminal since 2017
Every femicide in the sex trade warrants action and no country is doing enough to stop men using lethal violence against women in #prostitution. But the radio silence on the recent case of a woman murdered in a German apartment brothel, compared to the Irish case is deafening.
I don't think anyone can prove their case on what policy is better based on homicide data alone because as far as I'm aware no country is tracking murders of women in prostitution specifically. The cases and survivor reports we do have indicate lethal violence is a concern always
In any country, call it "legalization", "liberalization" or "decrim" women in #prostitution are given advice on how to not get robbed, raped, and murdered on the job from organizations that speak of #sexwork. Clearly, it remains a significant concern under all models of law.
Reading about legal experts and sexologists who work with child rapists repeatedly going "oh, if they'd just pay someone 18+ for it, it's totally fine!" and the totally fine thing is cutting someone's skin or keeping someone in a basement for a dozen men a day. I'm furious.
Women in prostitution are not sponges for rape and abuse. Not only are men very capable of raping both their stepdaughter and the barely 18-year-old woman at the brothel, a disproportionately large number of women in the sex trade are themselves child sexual abuse survivors.
Some women in the sex trade have reported that men tell them "I chose you because you look like my niece/daughter/granddaughter/student". How does that make her feel esp. considering the significant chance she is a survivor of incest/child abuse? Why are "experts" endorsing this?
Having made terrible experiences with window #prostitution in Amsterdam, the city plans to build a mega-brothel euphemistically called an "erotic center" instead. 100 women in rooms plus social and health service, security, hospitality, entertainment, education & cultural events.
In Germany, we call these places "mega brothels" and we have many of them. The biggest is the Pascha brothel in Cologne with 150 individual rooms. Such places may also include strip clubs, restaurants, spaces for concerts and business meetings. None of this has made women safe.
Not only are mega-brothels dehumanizing to the women in it, presenting them often based on "flavor" as in sorted by race or transgender status, bouncers and cameras have not made them remotely safe. The Pascha in Cologne has seen drug and human trafficking + 1 murder & 2 attempts