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#Prostitution #Sexwork

Ist Zeit gegen Geld und NICHT Sex gegen Geld.

Warum?

Wenn ich für 60 min ne Massage buche, werde ich 60 min massiert.
Sexwork Dates gehen öfters über 2-4 Std zT auch über die Nacht.
Das schafft ihr nicht mal mit Viagra.
Ihr bezahlt die Zeit der/ des ~
Sexworkers|*in. Wäre sonst lustig, man 3 Std Date hat, da 4x Sex hat u jedes Mal Sex extra bezahlen müsste. Das wäre Sex gegen Geld. Ist es nicht. Ihr habt 1 Betrag, egal ob ihr 0, 1 oder 5x Sex habt.

Es gibt aber auch Dates in denen es keinen Geschlechtsverkehr gibt. ZB im ~
BDSM / Kink Bereich. Eine Domina bietet KEINEN Geschlechtsverkehr an, wenn Sexwork Sex gegen Geld ist, wäre sie keine Sexworkerin.

Im Bondage / BDSM / Kink Bereich kann man auch Workshops bei Dominas buchen um zB eine Session zu sichern, weil einem das Wissen / Erfahrung fehlt~
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Until 1997 German men could legally rape their wives. Furthermore the law held that women had to pretend to enjoy #maritalrape our be found at fault in case of divorce. Here's the reasoning of the Federal Court of "Justice" from 1966 translated to English:
"The woman does not fulfill her conjugal duties simply by letting the intercourse take place impassively. If, by reason of her disposition or for other reasons (...) she is unable to find satisfaction in conjugal intercourse, marriage nevertheless requires of her a concession..
..in conjugal affection and sacrifice and forbids the display of indifference or repugnance. For experience has shown that the partner who seeks his natural and legitimate satisfaction in marital intercourse can hardly ever be content with mere quenching of instincts without...
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Having fun with cyberstalking #UKGOV, attacking organisations, universities & individuals connected to the justice system, UK #military against #NCSC, treating #intelligence & #GCHQ as jokes to your 15- 20 yrs malicious #hacking for #China & #Russia inside #Britain, @Animez_UK?01
Converting #traditional crime to cyber-enabled crime and becomes a malicious #cyberattacker against the UK, for

1- #financial income,
2- #sexual desire and #harassment with #pornography sent to #women,
3- attacks for #politics against the #UKGOV.

@Animez_UK @NCSC

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1st stage- early life:
-Experienced #exclusion/#discrimination.
-Didn’t learned to communicate with #women.
-favours #authoritarianism.
-enjoys to #control targeted women & whom against his will.
- Expresses hidden #hatred & #violence on through cyberattacks.

@Animez_UK @NCSC Image
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Liebes @FluxFM-Team,
wir möchten euch gerne auf die Gefahren bezüglich eurer Berichterstattung zum Thema Prostitution hinweisen. Wir sind die Berliner Ortsgruppe des Vereins @SISTERS - für den Ausstieg aus der Prostitution! e.V.u. unterstützen Frauen unter anderem dabei aus
1/11
d. Prostitution auszusteigen. Somit kommen wir oft mit Frauen in Kontakt,die ihren Einstieg in das „Business“ bereuen u. erschrocken sind was sie vor ihrem Einstieg für ein falsches Bild v. der Prostitution hatten. Das „Bereuen klingt“ sehr soft. Fakt ist, dass 68 % d.Frauen
2/11
durch die Zeit in d. Prostitution Kriterien einer Posttraumatischen Belastungsstörung erfüllen, dessen Ausprägung vergleichbar mit Kriegsveteranen o. Folteropfern ist (wir reden hier v. Frauen,die sich aus eigenen Stücken dafür entschieden haben). Zudem zeigen Studien, dass
3/11
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„Und meint eigentlich irgendjemand, ein Freier würde vergessen, dass er gerade über eine Frau drübergerutscht ist, von der er nicht wissen kann, ob sie wollte, oder bei der er sehen konnte, dass sie NICHT wollte, und er hat es trotzdem getan?
1/14
Warum sollte diese erlernte Regel dann nicht auch für andere Frauen gelten? Warum sollte man sie nicht auch auf andere #Frauen anwenden?

Ja. #Prostitution ist #Gewalt. Und das #Stigma sorgt dafür, dass wir nicht darüber sprechen. Weil wir uns schämen sollen.
2/14
Aber es ist nicht das #Stigma,das uns tötet, es sind die #Freier,es ist die Prostitution.“
aus: „Warum ist Prostitution Gewalt?“, @HuschkeMau anlässlich des internationalen Hurentags 2019 huschkemau.de/2019/06/02/war… #FreierSindTäter #ProstitutionistGewalt
3/14
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Indian Supreme Court rules that women in #prostitution should not be criminalized, harassed, discriminated or have their children removed. Good! But still need to make exit programs available and work on decreasing demand which is the cause of exploitation telegraphindia.com/india/prostitu…
From this article it appears that sex trafficking victims in India are forced into what sounds like re-education homes which they cannot leave for years. This practice needs to end. And reliably differenting exploited persons from voluntary sex sellers remains a pipe dream.
It appears the Indian Supreme Court plans to cast prostitution as a job (though brothel keeping is currently still illegal) which will decrease (though not eliminate) police violence but is inadequate to combat john and pimp violence where victim testimony remains hard to come by
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Over the years I've listened to women who view #prostitution as violence, those who view it as work and those who are ambivalent. On the whole, the reality they describe is the same, only the interpretation varies. Here's a response video on this dynamic:

Centrally the women all meet the same men and those men generally share a view of the sex trade with the brothel as playground and the women as toys not human beings. So they harass women and violate their boundaries independently of whether she sees herself as a worker or victim
But the "sex work" language is so strong in warping people's minds that we can sit there and listen to women describe severe harassement and assault and just go "haha isn't the sex workers life kinky and funny" (see the video for precisely what I mean). I wont participate in this
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"Mit zwölf ist man in Asien zu alt zum Teppichknüpfen für #IKEA, weil die Hände zu groß sind. Man darf aber erst mit 14 bei #NIKE anfangen. Da entsteht eine Versorgungslücke von 2 Jahren, die meistens mit #Prostitution gestopft wird.

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Oh Herr, wir haben keine Ahnung von #Sklavenhandel mit Kindern, Zerstörung ganzer Volkswirtschaften durch #Börsenspekulationen und #Umweltkatastrophen durch #Ressourcenausbeutung.
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Oh Herr, wir wissen nichts von Hermesbürgschaften für Staudämme und Turnschuhproduktionen in #Südostasien.
Herr, die meisten von uns sind froh, wenn sie sich ihr Autokennzeichen merken können.

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Diskussion über Prostitution: Anekdote versus Analyse

Jedes Mal, wenn über #Prostitution diskutiert wird, über die Folgen für uns betroffene Frauen und auch für die ganze Gesellschaft, kommt der eine Satz:
„Ich kenne aber eine, die das freiwillig macht.“ (1/7)
Davon mal abgesehen, dass die Freiwilligkeit oft nur vorhanden ist, wenn man ganz oberflächlich hinschaut, ist es halt auch eine intellektuelle Beleidigung, eine Diskussion darüber, ob Männer Frauen für Sex kaufen sollten, mit Anekdoten zu führen. (2/7)
Was wir brauchen, ist eine Analyse, keine Anekdote.
Wir würden Diskussionen darüber, ob man Armut abschaffen muss und wie, auch nicht führen, indem wir Sachen sagen wie: „Ich kenne aber jemanden, der hat freiwillig seinen HartzIV-Antrag ausgefüllt und findet das ok.“. (3/7)
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Gestern gab es 'ne Sendung zu #Prostitution in @ndr mit Huschke Mau, die ein Vergütungsverbot für sexuelle Dienstleistungen fordert, weil sie glaubt, dass Sex gegen Geld geächtet werden soll. Leider ist sie gegangen, ohne auf die Kritik an diese Forderung einzugehen. 1/x
Zu Beginn der Sendung ging es darum, wie Huschke Mau mit 18 vom deutschem Sozialsystem im Stich gelassen wurde. Das ist ein wichtiger Punkt auch für diese Forderung. Denn dieses Problem wird durch ein Vergütungsverbot von Sexarbeit nicht mal annähernd gelöst. 2/x
Sowieso: Wenn Armut, soziale Ausgrenzung, Gewalterfahrungen in der eigenen Familie das Problem sind, dann hat das alles streng genommen nichts mit #Sexarbeit/#Prostitution zu tun. Ein Prostitutionsverbot schafft die Armut nicht ab, es löst keines dieser Probleme. 3/x
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Okay, wenn schon #prostitution mal trendet und sich Leute empören, weil eine Aktivistin dagegen im Fernsehen ungewohnte Widerworte bekam, sag ich mal was zu der Meldung, die dagegen fast untergeht, aber die deutlich wichtigere ist. 1/9
2/9
Nämlich diese:
fr.de/rhein-main/mai…
3/9
Hier wird nämlich das Grundproblem deutlich, welches wir haben: das gesellschaftliche Stigma. Eine Sexarbeiterin ruft die Polizei, weil sie sich bedroht fühlt und sich außerdem Waffen in dem Haus befinden.
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I've tuned into the webinar from @MerchedCymru, @LGBAllies_Cymru and @WomensRightsNet on #RSE #RSEWales

Scene being set... Huge challenges with sexual harassment in schools as per @EstynHMI report and @WelshGovernment's RSE code fails to tackle these.
Stephanie Davies Arai @cwknews speaking first.
Children being exposed to porn and gender identity ideology online and in life.
Link being made between toxic messages girls receiving and deciding to opt-out of becoming women.
Change of language has happened. GIRES presenting gender identity as innate.
Now looking at resources for teens eg. Gender Identity Workbook for Teens, 'Gender Quest' Workbook, all encouraging kids to interpret their lives through gender lens (likes, hobbies etc).
Good grief.
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Macht eine #Legalisierung die #Prostitution sicherer? Ein Thread. (1/10)
Das Gegenteil ist der Fall. BordellBetreiberInnen erhalten weitere Zugriffe auf das Leben und die Daten von prostituierten Frauen und Zuhälterei wird nur noch geahndet, wenn sie übermäßig geschieht. (2/10)
Es blühen #Menschenhandel und #Zwangsprostitution in Deutschland ebenso wie die Freiergewalt.
#Legalisierung bedeutet, nicht zu fragen: Was ist #Prostitution? Warum gibt es sie? Und zu was führt sie? (3/10)
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TW: R A P E!

Here are quotes by German men from the thread. German legal "sex" buying is one of the most shameful things my country is currently tolerating. We didn't criminalize paying to rape trafficking victims until 2017 (and have had 0 convictions since). ImageImageImage
It is really important that we come to understand that prostitution and sex trafficking are not separate AT ALL. They happen frequently in the same locations, women are advertised on the same websites and the same men purchase access to (and commit rape against) both groups.
Its impossible to legislate on prostitution without affecting sex trafficking & vice versa as Germany poignantly illustrates: If the man who pays is just a "client" then our law held for the longest time he can't be held accountable for the "service providers" circumstances.
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Don't understand how Western academics studying global south women & kids exploited by "sex tourists" aren't embarrassed when they argue that these groups are "constructed as vulnerable". Socioeconomic power, white and male privilege are real everywhere - except here apparently🤡
Reading an article by a Candian "feminist" researcher interviewing women in Brazil, inc. favela communities, concluding that they're going through a "moral panic" and that really white men aren't doing any particular harm when they purchase access to women from these communities.
This Canadian "feminist" researcher is crying that women in Rio Grande do Norte, Brazil who organized massed anti-rape protests were against "sex tourism" & had slogans like "We scream that we are women and not World Cup souvenirs, that we are women and not commodities." The gall
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"In just one phone call, Otto had protected Lundstrom from Luther in a way the police couldn’t, even after ten 911 calls and a restraining order." "Otto routinely dispatched Lundstrom to Williston, where she’d work until she met her quota of $1,000 per day." #students #rape
"now perhaps the most common sex trafficking recruitment vehicle: social media. Experts say victims are groomed by pimps who play the numbers game with extreme patience. “[Predators] could say ‘you’re beautiful’ to 100 girls just to get one” #grooming elle.com/culture/a36898…
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If you care about productive discourse regarding #prostitution stop telling women they're abolitonists because they hate their husbands "being seduced" at brothels. Playing women against each other while again letting men get away with it scott free is disgusting.
Might as well say "you're anti prostitution because no one wants to fuck you". This is such misogyny. Most of us are anti sex buyer and pimp because either we or someone close to us endured sexual violence (often in a sex trade context) or we can imagine how awful it would be.
Yes wives who blame the woman in prostitution for her partners infidelity exist and some use degrading language towards women. But men really gotta stop framing women's politics as a whole as being about wanting to control them sexually. This is such a patriarchal reversal.
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Since we're once again comparing #prostitution to retail jobs, it doesn't hurt to have a list of disproportionate physical risks of being in the sex trade. This is not to shame women in it or to suggest women's bodies are "broken", but to highlight why these comparisons lag.
Since the recent comparison has centred on cashiers who get arthritis, it's helpful to know that women in the sex trade are at significant risk of chronic joint, back, jaw and wrist pain. The cause of which we don't want to talk about: Sex buyers heavy bodies & aggressive motions
Sex buyers know about this physical damage, btw and talk about it - or rather "complain". "She couldn't do xy cause she's got x pain, so annoying." Trigger warning: Rape and dehumanization. ImageImageImageImage
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German sex buyer: "I might be able to find [a woman consenting to my kinks], but I like very young beautiful women and because im older I can't get the 20 year olds no more. Im not so young anymore, kinda let myself go." So you admit they don't want you? What do we call that?????
He'd fit right into this series: Take a photo of yourself why don't you. So unashamed to be touching someone who does not want you. This is what hundreds of yours of a culture permitting sex buying does. If he wasn't paying youd call him a rapist.
Or take this Aussie. Are we cool with men doing this? Do old men with excess income have a right to access the bodies of young impoverished women? Why the hell is this a hard question for some? The sex trade maintains a sphere of male power setting women's rights back decades.
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Australian sex buyers are having a normal one, casually discussing the mass sexual exploitation of Asian women and poor foreign students, as well as how to get away with raping children. All on legal websites. But hey, "customers" like any other - right? internationalsexguide.nl/forum/showthre…
Also, sex buyers looooove what the #sexwork movement is doing. If they're loving you, you're not in the business of putting power into the hands of the seller. You can bet on that. Deregulation which is the current trend down under mostly benefits buyers & pimps and they know it.
Amazing that being pro #prostitution is cast as the anti-racist position when sex buyers are out there talking like this 👇 Women are not cuisines. And, duh, sex buyers know the women wouldn't touch them if they didn't desperately need money. Sex buying is classist violence too.
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#Camming is not safe. 1) because you can be recorded and those videos are shared against your will. 2) you get pressured into degrading and dangerous acts by the men who pay and of course into entering #prostitution. Solidarity with women in camming!
Every woman I know who has done camming says you get real close to meeting up with one of the men who has been paying you. Money gets tight, payments dwindle when you're no longer seen as "fresh" and you think "if I just do it once will it be so bad?" Camming is not a privilege.
#Camming =/= #prostitution, but there is a huge overlap between the two. And the idea that you're physically safe in camming because the buyer can't touch you is sadly wrong as the tragic case above illustrates. Men who pay for camming can hurt you and can even kill you.
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Germany has lost the plot on #prostitution so completely that we are seriously after 20 years of legal free-for-all for sex buyers debating whether maybe letting them gang-bang women in a state of advanced pregnancy might be just slightly medically and ethically questionable? 🤦‍♀️
And I'm pissed off at both sides here because the right is only interested in this because they care about unborn children, i.e. they're also currently restricting our abortion rights, and the left just cares about men's pleasure and pretending that it equates to women's freedom.
But the #prostitution of heavily pregnant women is not a matter of personal opinion. And it's also entirely unrelated to questions of sexual agency, e.g. when a pregnant woman chooses to have sex for her own pleasure or sex to help induce labour. It's simply extremely dangerous.
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#MindGeek allowed its platform to be used for #prostitution.
Like now defunct online marketplace #BackPage (which was indicted along with its
founders and seized by federal authorities), and #Craigslist’s now defunct “personal”
pages, MindGeek knowingly permits its platform
to be used to facilitate trafficked
prostitution.
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Langer Thread, CN #Prostitution
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In meiner feministischen "Bubble" gibt es viele, die von "#Sexarbeit" & von "der sexuellen Selbstbestimmung der Frau" sprechen, wenn es um Prostitution geht und das Thema aufgeworfen wird.
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Der Alltag des Gros der Prostituierten in Deutschland ist aber weitab von irgendeiner Selbstbestimmung, weder sexuell noch finanziell noch irgendetwas. Ich bin sehr dafür, dass Menschen, die selbstbestimmt ihren Körper für sexuelle Dienstleistungen anbieten wollen,
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das tun können, ohne Frage. Das darf aber nicht auf Kosten derjenigen gehen, die täglich unter den unsäglichen Bedingungen von #Straßenstrich, #Laufhaus und #Bordelle'n leiden. Und das sind die Allerallermeisten.
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