My question: what *status* do these "lived experiences" have in trying to sort out an ethical policy? How should it feed into the policy process?
A 'I get a great deal out of playing rugby, and it is important to my sense of well-being.' This is fair enough, and uncontested. Everyone accepts this.
B: I think it is fair for me to play women's rugby
C: I think it is safe for me to play women's rugby
If they did, those views should count for nothing. It is a category mistake to think that fairness and safety are matters of "lived