The wife and I have been talking this evening about the good people we have had the pleasure to live around in our years out here
I have learned more about what it means to be a good Christian friend & neighbor from @Bonkuba than anyone else.
There are good people out there
Had a strong rainstorm one day and my garage began to flood. I was frantically trying to pump out what I could.
@Bonkuba came out of his house and started shoveling like it was his own house. He broke free some debris that was blocking a drainage path for me, saving my garage..
I had a really dopey dumb dog who was quite the escape artist. He would always help wrangle her and lure her back to the yard, and then do his best to fix the hole she had dug. Often we wouldn't even be home, and he would still chase down this mutt and return her home...
We would watch OU football games and UFC on his back patio. The invitation was always there.
He would get a water slide bounce house for his kids' birthdays and invite my kids over to come play and enjoy it and then send MY kids home with goodie bags...
He was always offering the use of his tools, his storm shelter, and whatever else we needed, sometimes before we even realized we needed it.
My kids all love him and his family and would watch for when they would be outside so they could come join them...
When we were gone, he would watch our house. Tell is if some sketchy people were on the block, or what was happening.
It wasnt just us either, he was like this for everyone on the street. Dependable, self sacrificing, generous and just an absolute joy of a man.
We became more than neighbors. He and his family became OUR family. The street became OUR street.
This was all on his initiative. I probably would have kept my distance forever, not wanting to bother anyone or risk much, but that's not his style, and I'm grateful for it
I would often joke with him about being a better Latter-day Saint than actual Latter-day Saints. His devotion to family and his responsibilities as a husband and father rival the very best of the men I know. Few greater examples exist to me
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for Christmas the last 3 years, I have been equipping my children with weapons to wage battle with each other in the backyard. The wife and I have noticed a couple of things happen, as our children (both boys & girls) engage in aggressive play;
1. They spend way more time outside, because thats the only place to safely engage with the implements of destruction (they can wrestle and fight indoors, but if they want to swing swords or clubs at each other, gotta take it outside) Theyre way more active than their peers
2. They learn to pull their punches. The first couple of battles were rough, people got hurt and came in crying, but we tried not to police it for them, we allowed the natural desire for cooperative play to dictate the terms...
Seeing the constant enumeration of callings and achievements within the Church before apostatizing, and the consequent deterioration of moral standards post-church membership on display as though it speaks to some credibility to then pass judgement on the Church's doctrines...
All you have actually managed to do is convince me you never progressed beyond the conventional-morality stage of development, whereby your motivation was completely wrapped up in social approval or conformity...
you tell on yourself when you list your bona fides, assured that we will revere them the way you did of others (driven by social approvals)...
"Government shouldnt be in marriage at all" sounds like a nice, neutral place to be, but it denies the purpose of marriage and ignores the consequences to society that rearing children inside of some social experiment will have. It does affect you, and it affects your kids.
Libertarianism is lukewarm where the gospel is concerned. It's a false god that too many Latter-day Saints worship because they think it slices through social issues with some precision. It simply abdicates responsibility for societal ills
Its appealing because you get to be "hands off" in advocating that your government, which is supposed to represent YOU and YOUR interests, reflect what you know to be best. Government has a major role to play in ensuring the kind of environment that perpetuates a healthy society
A common theme among the #HeavenlyMother crowd appears to be that, feeling disaffected, they ventured to pray to someone other than God, and by golly, someone answered with sweet affirming reassurances that yes, Priesthood leaders are wrong
I love that all that is required to access this knowledge of #HeavenlyMother is to hate the patriarchy.
Perhaps it's some connection to the divine feminine suffering, as #HeavenlyMother labors under the oppressive rule of her God-husband. Maybe mortal woman must first find herself under such circumstances before her spirit is primed to realize a God after her own image