Matt Jugo Profile picture
Sep 9, 2020 10 tweets 3 min read Read on X
Here's an interesting paradox, courtesy of David Whyte:

The deeper your commitment to the principles in your life, the more fluid life starts to feel.

True commitment often doesn't mean rigidity, it's more likely to result in flow and movement.

Commitment is liberating.
More brilliance from David Whyte on generosity in relationship

Learning to be generous with yourself ... for some of us, that's the hard part. Image
3/ Gratitude can be understood as a particular form of attention, one that unites awareness and appreciation in an open ended way.

In this sense it can absolutely be considered a practice, like meditation or prayer (though it's also not exactly the same as either of these). Image
Speaking of gratitude, there's a fine drizzle in the air in Oakland, CA, today.

It's barely there... just a few droplets... but it makes the air feel fresh and clean, and it's AMAZING.
Opening windows today.

Wow, that feels good.

It's green air quality for miles. Image
4/ "To hate our procrastinating tendencies is to hate our relationship with time itself" - David Whyte Image
5/ "any creative frontier is in its essence a conversational frontier"

First, a conversation within ourselves;

Then, that conversation carried into the broader world. Image
6/ "an endeavour achieved without delay ... is a bagatelle"

(NTSF, use "bagatelle" more often in casual conversation) Image
7/ This one is solid gold:

"Procrastination does not stop a project from coming to fruition; what stops us is giving up on an original idea because we have not got to the heart of the reason we are delaying, nor let the true form of our reluctance instruct us on the way ahead."
8/ my most Twitter-relevant David Whyte quote yet...

Note, he doesn't oversimplify by saying "distraction bad, focus good"...

Instead I think he suggests that both distraction and focus are necessary parts of the "dance of purpose".

May your distractions be worthy of you! Image

• • •

Missing some Tweet in this thread? You can try to force a refresh
 

Keep Current with Matt Jugo

Matt Jugo Profile picture

Stay in touch and get notified when new unrolls are available from this author!

Read all threads

This Thread may be Removed Anytime!

PDF

Twitter may remove this content at anytime! Save it as PDF for later use!

Try unrolling a thread yourself!

how to unroll video
  1. Follow @ThreadReaderApp to mention us!

  2. From a Twitter thread mention us with a keyword "unroll"
@threadreaderapp unroll

Practice here first or read more on our help page!

More from @Jeanvaljean689

Jan 5
1/n I want to post a brief thread about "seeing". 🧵
2/ Years ago I lived in Cape Town, South Africa for a year. I was a volunteer teacher.

I lived in one of the central suburbs and took a train each day into Salt River, which was the township where the school I worked was located.
3/ Cape Town is a beautifully diverse city. Arguably one of the most diverse cities in the world.

A key refresh point on trade routes for centuries. A multilingual, multiethnic city at the tip of Africa whose inhabitants nickname it "The Mother City".

(Getty Images/Unsplash) Image
Read 22 tweets
May 14, 2024
1/ You sit down next to someone at a dinner party.

After some small talk, the person effortlessly pivots to deeper talk on topics of personal interest to both of you. They make space for you, say things that are spontaneously funny, + seem curious about your perspective.

-->
2/ perhaps you have the distinct feel that this person sparkles

what you might take for granted about this whole exchange is that most of it is regulated by your body

Personal space, body language, and eye contact

Now consider what happens when you converse with an LLM.
3/ yes, what happens is, in its own way, a marvel

The fact that stochastic models function as well as they do is extraordinary + tells us things we have not fully grasped about human language

But consider for a moment that the model is essentially trying to backfill the somatic
Read 10 tweets
Nov 22, 2023
OK friends, time for a thread 🧵

this will be about one of my favorite social science experiments of all time, conducted by Dr J. Kiley Hamlin at Yale, in 2007

in which she used an elegant forced-choice frame to show that BABIES ARE MORE SOCIALLY ATTUNED THAN YOU MIGHT THINK
2/ Her subjects were a group of 6 month and 10 month old babies (each group +/- 2 weeks in age) and her experiment design was this:

Each baby sat in mothers' lap + watched tiny movies, featuring anthropomorphized plush toys -

That's right, googley-eyes smacked on plush shapes.
3/ The first movie that all the babies watched was a hero's journey in which a brave YELLOW TRIANGLE tried to ... climb a hill.

Yes, that was the plot of the story.

The Babies needed to understand "yellow triangle" was just trying to climb.
Read 12 tweets
Oct 17, 2023
@quotidiania @the_wilderless Yes - here's a link to his essay.



One of the things that's interesting to me is - he identifies the dysfunctional coping style (melancholy) with narcissism.

melancholy happens, when a person makes their losses ALL ABOUT THEM...sas.upenn.edu/~cavitch/pdf-l…
@quotidiania @the_wilderless 2/ this paragraph right here: (the "melancholic", or, we could say, the "dysfunctional coper", fails, because he is making it all about HIM - which is to say, he falsely assumes that HE can "fix it all" with his intellect or his effort somehow, instead of simply feeling the loss) text from Freud's essay  The essential thing, therefore, is not whether the melancholic's distressing self-denigration is correct, in the sense that his self-criticism agrees with the opinion of other people. The point must rather be that he is giving a correct description of his psychological situation. He has lost his self-respect and he must have good reason for this. It is true that we are then faced with a contradiction that presents a problem which is hard to solve. The analogy with mourning led us to conclude that he had suffered a loss in regard to an object; what he tells us points...
@quotidiania @the_wilderless 3/ his delusional coping style comes about, because he has a poverty-mindset - his reaction to loss is to become more "grasping" Image
Read 25 tweets
Dec 6, 2021
The absolute beauty of going for a run in the dark predawn fog, and meeting other runners on the paths

I ♥️ humans

Their crazy accidental fellowships, most of all.

Ok, I log off now, bye y'all, have pleasant day
2/n ok tho I'll stop for a photo

because this is hauntingly beautiful to me.

The lights on the building are there to warn low planes or, more likely, helicopters

They are a 21st century kind of lighthouse

They are, also, the arc of a flock of birds in flight, very apropos Image
3/n and another ...

Same building, seen from across the Lake, in the dawn, from the Cleveland Steps Image
Read 5 tweets
Aug 18, 2021
1/n Ok I'll bite.

A thread about the "note taking wars", + why famous s$%-p#$ter Tiag@ F@rte does not have a clue what he is talking about

@obsdmd is a gorgeous, well executed product with a fantastic community behind it. Yay!

♥️🚀 ♥️

... but it is *not* a "roam-like".
2/n block referencing and outlining, as implemented by @RoamResearch, are WAY more than just check-boxes to tick, in some arbitrary feature-comparison list.

They are *core* features of the product.

... CORE features that cannot be tacked on, if they're not in the product-DNA.
3/n Yet, it takes time to see this.

... when I first started using Roam, I was so conditioned by the Wikipedia model of backlinked pages, I couldn't 1st see that the true revolution, is at a deeper level.

Thinking in blocks means *atomizing thoughts*.

Atomized thoughts-->
Read 7 tweets

Did Thread Reader help you today?

Support us! We are indie developers!


This site is made by just two indie developers on a laptop doing marketing, support and development! Read more about the story.

Become a Premium Member ($3/month or $30/year) and get exclusive features!

Become Premium

Don't want to be a Premium member but still want to support us?

Make a small donation by buying us coffee ($5) or help with server cost ($10)

Donate via Paypal

Or Donate anonymously using crypto!

Ethereum

0xfe58350B80634f60Fa6Dc149a72b4DFbc17D341E copy

Bitcoin

3ATGMxNzCUFzxpMCHL5sWSt4DVtS8UqXpi copy

Thank you for your support!

Follow Us!

:(