Dear Christian Lady,
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I know how desperate you are to find the man of your dreams and settle in his house, being called Mrs, mama and respected as somebody's wife yet it is not enough reason to sell your self cheap, it is not enough to drop your values,
it is not enough to negotiate sexual purity! It is not just enough! I saw a tweet of someone celebrating her virginity at 28 still willing to wait, meanwhile teenagers are thinking they have passed the age of virginity. Lol.
So once you are 18 and still a virgin you are old fashioned😏 who told you there is an age limit for virginity. Some nurses will advice you to have sex to reduce menstrual cramps. Tell them we will manage, menstrual cramps won't kill😃
It is not wrong to wish for a good man, it is not wrong to wish for marriage, it is not wrong to wish for children and a beautiful home but you don't have to drop your values to have all of these.
What is yours will definitely be yours, carrying your clothes to that brother's house does not make you the one for him. Lol, some sisters can be very funny, how can you pack your belongings to a man's house, somebody you just started dating or is he a fashion designer?
You don't have to glue yourself to a man because you are looking for a husband, calling him morning and night, somebody that is refusing to see your greenlight😏
Engaging in cooler ministry is not an easy one o just don't waste your food on someone that will never notice you except you are doing it out of brotherly love!
Don't even go about cooking, washing and doing chores for a man that is not your husband just to make him love you except in serious cases where they are unable to, you can help a friend.
You don't have to go about visiting brothers, giving them the chance to grab you, some will even demand sex from you and you will saying "I couldn't believe it" when you were visiting him, sitting carelessly what did you expect! Please nobody should stress me😏
Set your boundaries sis, some people will respect you more when you set boundaries, when you keep your dignity of not running after men, stop having close relationships with married men! Please stop it! Stop it!
Don't date a married man, don't collect somebody's husband, wait for your own! God will do it soon, just wait for God's time❤
While you wait, get knowledge, acquire skills, build on your character, work on your emotions, lay the foundation of your dreams, work on your visions, strive to be the best!
Don't come and become a pest to somebody's son! Please! When you are a woman of value, you will definitely attract the right man!
While you wait, don't forget you were created for a reason, don't forget you have a purpose, don't forget you can also break grounds in your generation! Start now and when the right man comes, he becomes and addition and you a blessing🔥

Love, Essie
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