Tom Nettles is the Reformed evangelical norm, not Charles Spurgeon in 2020. One of the dark secrets of American Calvinism, is that its entire US history has been on the side of theologically & anthropologically advancing white supremacy over blacks... baptistnews.com/article/baptis…
It was this way during slavery, Reconstruction, Jim Crow, desegregation, white flight in the 1970s, 80s, & 90s, locking arms with the GOP stigmatizing black inner-city residents & then using that to justify "mission," & so on. American Calvinism did not end slavery nor Jim Crow.
The shame this brings must be overwhelming to those who consider Reformed Evangelicalism the standard of how the gospel should be defined & those who believe their tribe is absolutely right. That is, "we get the gospel right." "If are right, how were "they" (not us) so wrong?"
The black church's entire history, since its inception, has been fighting against the racism & white supremacy of Calvinists from the Puritans, to Particular Baptists, to Presbyterians, and so on. As such, Nettles recent article is no surprise. amazon.com/gp/product/082…
The cleanse themselves of the shame of this American fact, 2020 Reformed evangelicals, when this history is raised, immediately leap to the following: (1) focussing on abolitionists, (2) squeezing a gnat through a straw to find the outlier black Calvinist in those circles, . . .
(3) Hoisting up Charles Spurgeon's anti-slavery content as some kind of deletion of the fact that UK/USA Calvinism has primarily supported the theological anthropology of white supremacy over blacks. It seems exaggerated & romanticized in its bringing about of *real* change.
Spurgeon's anti-slavery views lost him support of Southern Baptists. The same Southern Baptist perspective at the time is represented in Tom Nettles' 2020 article. Don't hear what I'm not saying: Spurgeon was a great preacher in the Baptist tradition & was faithful to it!
Kudos to him! In that sense, it's appropriate to celebrate him for those reasons but to raise him as proof that UK/USA Calvinism has not emphasized white supremacy, fails. The exception proves the rule. It also opens the door for the conflation of abolition with anti-racism.
Here's the question, from a black church perspective: what difference did Spurgeon's teaching make in rooting out *racism* in the 19th-century? Both UK & American abolitionists were extremely racist & I can't find the evidence of the effects of his preaching on English racism.
I'm interested in this, because of what I consider a romanticized & exaggerated view of his influence on English racism. I plan to contact black British scholars to explain their perspective on Spurgeon's racial impact because I don't see, historically, how racism was reduced.
In the US, instead of addressing the white nationalism that is rampant in 2020 Reformed evangelical culture, as an extension of the reading their own tradition, they have chosen the "whataboutism" approach to fight against BLM, critical race theory, intersectionality, etc.
Instead of embracing the epistemic humility that says, "huh, maybe there's something wrong with our tribe theologically because it historically fails to prevent Christian racism, we'll deflect by claiming others are the problem." If Spurgeon were the norm, there'd be no Nettles.
If Spurgeon were the norm, there'd be no discussions warning about the "threat" of "social justice warriors," "cultural Marxism," "critical race theory," etc. Instead, there would be an emphasis on white nationalism, submitting to black church leaders for direction, etc. . .
If Spurgeon were the norm, the emphasis would be "what happen to our forefathers during Jim Crow; to Billy Graham, Okenga, Criswell, etc. & why were they such failures on issues of race in the 1960s and 1970s?" And so on. Their version of the gospel doesn't end Christian racism.
If Spurgeon were the norm Picket, Lecrae, Mason, Tisby, etc., would not have walked away. No, the spirit of rejecting Spurgeon is the norm. Nettles is the local church norm. The Facebook norm. The blog norm. The Twitter norm. This why Thabiti has wasted many years of his life.
Thabiti Anyabwile has to say this in 2020 because Spurgeon is the outlier exception, not the rule. Not the norm. Why is he having to address this in 2020?
So please, Dear White Reformed Evangelical in a church tradition rooted in the Southern history, or Puritan race history, as we say in black community, "Take care of home first." Spurgeon will unsuccessfully assuage the shame of your history until you root out white nationalism.
I've seen leaders use Spurgeon to address 2020 issues, as if Spurgeon carries some sort of authority, say, like the Catholic Magisterium. White Calvinists didn't care about Spurgeon on race then & many won't care now in a context where authority rests in local church tribalism.
Spurgeon fandom on race will fail until they can figure out why their version of Calvinism does not prevent racist attitudes, Nettle's writing nonsense about slavery, etc. Here's the evasive (cowardly) response: "they had a blind spot in applying the true gospel." #TakeCareOfHome
Actually reading first is always helpful @itslukek 👆🏾 (name the traditions out loud)
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Karen Horney has been my biggest influence in psychology.
She explained why “nice guys” burn out, why some become tyrants, and why others vanish into isolation. All of it comes from the same root. A quick guide 🧵
Horney (1885–1952) was a German psychoanalyst who broke from Freud. Forget Oedipus complexes—she said the real driver of human misery is deeper: Basic Anxiety.
Once you get this, people’s behavior starts making scary sense.
Basic Anxiety = feeling small, alone, and unsafe in a hostile world. Usually formed in childhood when love feels conditional. You can have a PhD, six figures, a family… and still live with it every day.
I’m old. At my church growing up, youth ministry was sex-segregated and led by the fathers (mostly in suits). Only the youth choir and Sunday School were co-ed. I didn’t see the wisdom in that—until I wrote my book on fatherhood. Here’s why, backed by research:
Black boys in America don’t just need mentors.
They thrive socially, economically, spiritually, etc. with deeply invested older Black men—especially fathers—who build trust with their family, speak into their identity, and walk with them as extended family.
A recent study found that Black youth don’t just benefit from one-on-one mentorship.
They thrive when mentors:
• bond with the boy’s family
• operate like extended family
• stay for the long haul
• and model what manhood looks like
We raised GenZ/GenAlpha boys to be sweet, self-effacing "nice guys" that all the moms like. Now they’re terrified of rejection, addicted to video games, paralyzed by fear--a reaction again the narcissism of millennials. Let me explain how we created a generation of doormats.
To fix “toxic masculinity,” we overcorrected.
We taught boys:
– never to take up space
– never to be assertive
– never to want anything strongly
– always to be soft, sensitive, agreeable
Now we have 20-year-olds who won't ask girls out or grow up. Don't blame video games.
What we called “humility” was actually training in self-erasure. What we called “niceness” was often neurotic people-pleasing. We taught boys that being liked by everyone is the highest good. Especially by women and teachers.
Wess Roley, 20, killed 2 firefighters in Idaho brush fire sparked with flint. Not MAGA-related. Fits psych data on boys from divorced homes raised by moms: higher risk of destructive behavior. Here's why this matters:
Hurt boys grow to be men who tend to hurt others. Wess Roley grew up amid significant family turmoil. In September 2015, his mother filed for divorce, alleging that her husband, Wesley Roley Sr. had threatened her, pushed her to the ground, punched holes in walls, etc. Broken.
Court documents detailed years of alleged abuse, prompting a judge to issue a protective order initially barring Wesley Sr. from contacting both his wife and son.
This is a 1930 lynching. For whites, lynching was a social event. Like a college football game. My father tells how white girls, knowing their power, would taunt black boys in Atmore, AL when he was a kid: they would invite them to kiss them so they could get them lynched.
They’d threaten to lie about being assaulted by black boys, knowing it could get them lynched. My dad said black boys would run from white girls to avoid false accusations. The white girls/women—active in Southern churches—knew exactly what they were doing because they were evil.
What’s even more sad for me is that an entire generation of Reformed Evangelicals and Southern conservatives today a) don’t know this history & how central Christianity was to lynchings, and 2) have been trained to respond these stories with this, “That did not happen.”
Young Life was founded in 1941—well-intended but a bit misguided. Teens weren’t disengaged from church; they lacked their father's spiritual formation at home. Fathers are the greatest predictor of faith persistence into adulthood. Rayburn should’ve launched "Father Life"!
Again, have decades of data, dating back to the 1840s, that fathers are greatest predictor of faith persistence from childhood to adulthood, and instead of hiring pastors for men and fathers, churches hire youth pastors.🤦🏾♂️This still happens today!! Decades of data about fathers!
Adolescence emerged from dad-deprivation, yet the ministries pursued the kids (YMCA, camps, youth groups) instead of fathers. I still don’t get it. A 6:30 AM Wed. Bible study & F3 aren't enough to serve men and fathers. Fathers need comprehensive, structural support. #Confused