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Sep 15, 2020 13 tweets 3 min read Read on X
*THREAD* - Make more money, make more love

❤️ The NEW Formula for dates & dollars
(2020 changed everything)
Attraction/Value - gets interest & could convert in heat of the moment

Relation - motivates seeking continued experiences with you/your business

Relationship = Relate

- People enter because of value you have that they don't (differences)

- People stay because of similarities
❤️ It's the differences in the sex's that attract, but it's the similarities that keep them together

Without aligned views, common interests, similarities

...the relationship stands only on the emotional spike of arousal

Arousal comes & goes
The soul is both masculine & feminine

We incarnate into this world as male or female meaning our expression is more dominant in one

Which is why we naturally crave to experience the energy of the opposite sex

It is a 'lost' part of our cosmic self during our time on this earth
💵 In business it is the same

It is the differences that make you attractive

> Value you have that they are 'missing' & crave

But it is similarities that keep them coming back as a lifetime customer / client relationship
When the 'missing' part is filled, primal motivation to stick around goes away

What motivates people to then continue seeking you out is similarities

Are you like them?
Interested in the same things they are
On a similar path with similar goals

Hardwired tribal mentality
Relationship = Relate

🔑 Here's why this is VERY IMPORTANT right now more then ever

- More businesses are transitioning online
- More people are creating things to sell online

In volume we've never seen before

'hit & run' hook ups will become VERY ineffective
Meaning you can't just sell once

> Ad costs will go up
> More content will be produced making it require more effort to be seen

Combine that with microscopic attention spans & you'll clearly see

To thrive you must build relationships

(Life Time Value)
❤️ Attraction is not a choice

'Missing' Parts of ourselves examples:
- The energy of the opposite sex

- Money, Health, Social feeling of belonging

- Deeper trauma's
Example: Confidence/Self esteem can be 'missing' or 'taken' when life has beaten someone down repeatedly
🔑 When we vibrationally detect a opportunity or person has those 'missing parts'

We involuntarily become attracted

Attraction is not a choice

Acting on that attraction is technically a choice
...but humans are irrational

It feeling right is more important then it being right
"If you help others get what they want, you'll have everything you want" - Zig Ziglar

In order for others to involuntarily FEEL you are the right decision

It must be within you first

When you truly believe & feel it

The subconscious decodes that vibration into a feeling
What you feel they will feel

Decisions are based mostly on feelings

Change their mood, you'll change their mind

Change your mood, change their mind

Change your beliefs, change your mood
Thought + emotion = Belief

(e)motion = energy in motion
- What is the universally most attractive quality?

- What is the step by step process to go from unknown, to known, to relationship/client

...stay tuned for the next thread

Thank you for reading

🥂 Cheers,
- Yous

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